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Okay, so im trying the whole internet dating. This guy send me a message. And I have texted him. It seems like im the chaser. It takes his hours to respond. But i can't seem to help myself. I asked him out. Which i never do. He then said , "I though you lived downtown, it would be silly for you to come all the way downtown for a drink, give me a text when your downtown."

 

I feel like this kind of a nice way of saying im not interested?. But again, i can't seem to stop myself. I said im downtown for a dance class, sunday, he said he had a business meeting. I said how about saturday, he said he's all clear. I am digging this big hole. ... But the lack of desire seem to fuel me. He now has text me "what's the plan?" This is a bad idea right. What should i do. ?

 

I want to be like "come up here"

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what should i do? anyone?

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How much of a hike is it to where he is?

 

Honestly it sounds like he is a player. I'd let him go. However, one date can't be that bad, and you honestly never know if this is the man of your dreams. So do what your heart is telling you to do on this one.

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