justinje Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 I've posted a few times on here but haven't gotten too many responses. I'm going through a BU, I was finally feeling better, yesterday I actually felt fine like the BU didn't matter. I went to the gym, had a decent day at work, got home and actually was going to bed at a decent time in my bed (I've been falling asleep on the coach for the last two weeks watching TV because I couldn't sleep otherwise). Then last night I had this weird dream about an ex from back in High School, I woke up feeling awful. And then I got to work and decided to check my online dating account, while poking around looking for some recent communications I saw in my history the picture of my recent ex (the one I've been all bent up about) with her profile (we met on the site). It hurt just to see it, it was deactivated as she told me it was, so she's not active on it but just to see the pictures of her a flood of memories about when we first met and how awesome it was came back.......ouch. I was doing great but now I'm feeling alittle like I took several steps back. I wonder if this girl was really the special one......she ended it not me so really it doesn't matter I guess. It takes two to tango. But I'm haunted of things that could have been, and if it was me that caused the break-up or just her.............arg.
Leegh Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 It will take time, but I would only use the internet for business/work related purposes until you feel better about the break-up. I think it was easier to get over someone in the "olden days", prior to the early 1990's. When we can see pictures and find out so much info. about another person on-line, it prolongs the agony of a break-up. I wish I had more answers for you, but I did read somewhere not to listen to any music until one feels better about a break-up.
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