BiancaLDN Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 To tell her I can't live without her, blah blah blah. I've even given my phone to a friend for the week, because I know how weak I can be. But I have her email, and know her emails are linked with her phone...ugh
Coping Vortex Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 To tell her I can't live without her, blah blah blah. I've even given my phone to a friend for the week, because I know how weak I can be. But I have her email, and know her emails are linked with her phone...ugh If you want her back. Begging never works with women. Never. Be patient give her some time. My ex and I didn't have a meaningful conversation until 8 weeks after the break up. Of course you run the risk of losing them for good if too much time goes by. Funny my ex and I broke NC a few times and once she admitted that the longer the time the more she missed me and wanted to reach out to me. Its a hard balancing act. My advice is this: 1. Give a few days to a week and then contact her. Let her miss you a little and get over her initial anger. Could be just a short term argument. 2. If she wants to officially BU then you need to go NC from that point on and let her come to you or move on.
na49 Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 Do you think she'll find it attractive to know that you can't live without her? Leave her alone, let her miss you. If she reaches out to you, post about it here so you don't say anything you'll regret. Who broke up with who in your situation?
geegirl Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 To tell her I can't live without her, blah blah blah. I've even given my phone to a friend for the week, because I know how weak I can be. But I have her email, and know her emails are linked with her phone...ugh I believe you said she cheated on you and is not interested in you anymore? You know better than to give into those feelings. They come in waves. Perservere.
Author BiancaLDN Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 I believe you said she cheated on you and is not interested in you anymore? You know better than to give into those feelings. They come in waves. Perservere. That was me indeed - no I haven't given in, thank god
Author BiancaLDN Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 Do you think she'll find it attractive to know that you can't live without her? Leave her alone, let her miss you. If she reaches out to you, post about it here so you don't say anything you'll regret. Who broke up with who in your situation? We argued a lot, there wasn't really a break up, but I think I just pissed her off one too many times...
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