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and here i thought i was doing well


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was taking a shower and getting ready for bed, then i saw the scar on my hand which i got from doing something with her. almost cried, was like having a panic attack but replace the panic with sorrow and confusion

 

and i thought i was doing well. have a double date / trip set up with the new girl im starting to see and another couple. but right now im close to tears about my ex. crazy, i only started dating again after feeling like i've moved on

 

i dont even think about her much anymore, days were becoming less and less painful things were starting to look normal. then why? i've been reminded of her plenty prior to this and i didnt even so much as flinch at the thought, or remembering her. so why now, why here, why tonight.

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Yeah, it happens. Even when you have moved on, there are situations (mostly completely unimportant ones) that can act like "triggers". But I think these last for only 1-2 days, happened to me a few years ago after a BU.

 

Anyway, how weird that I too have a scar on my hand that I got when we were doing something together.

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