masabell Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 Can someone please help me? I really like this girl and I can express my feelings to her but I don't know how to. I would appreciate it if someone could help.
NateC Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 Depends...is she showing signs of liking you back? Don't outright express your feelings because you're just asking for heartbreak. Take it slow - ask her out on a date first and really get the feel whether or not you *really* have feelings for her or if it's a simple crush. Believe me, once you get to know someone feelings can change rather quickly. Context would help too. How old are you two? If you think she likes you back, what are some things she does?
Lani Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 What are your feelings? I need more information on whats going on, how you met, if you've kissed, etc..
Author masabell Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 (edited) I have known her for 2 years and she was dating my friend but we both said we liked each other, I don't know if she still likes me or not but I love her I just don't know how to tell her. And sorry for not giving enough information the 1st time, I am new to this. I honestly don't know how we met, we are about 14, 15 years old. Out of all the girls I dated she seems different from the rest of them. Edited January 18, 2013 by masabell
Lani Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 Do you ever do things together, just the two of you? If not, you need to get onto that. It's the best opportunity you're going to have to know if there is any feeling from her end.
Author masabell Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 I tried getting her to go to parks with me but she never can. Her parents say no, and the only time I can see her is in school. Past few days we have been messaging each other over fb cause it is the weekend and I have no idea what to say to her.
Keenly Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 Careful man, your potentially about to break the bro code, and cause some pretty serious drama between your circle of friends, possibly causing them to take sides and divide entirely. I have seen it happen.
Lani Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 Ok, i'm going to say something totally outrageous here.. but... at 15... you're not in love. You might think you are, but you're not. Keenly is right, you don't want to break the code and divide your group. I too have seen this happen, and it's awful. Anyway, just focus on some other girls who's parents let them go to the park and stuff more often.
Author masabell Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 What do you mean causing drama between my circle of friends?
Keenly Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 If you don't know the bro code, if this girl dated your friend, she is off limits.
Author masabell Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 So even if they absolutely hated each other then would it make a difference?
Author masabell Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 I broke up with my gf a month ago, and the girl I am talking about she and her ex-boyfriend hate each other
Keenly Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 if you and your friend are cool, try talking to him about it. "hey you know jessica? can I get at that?
Author masabell Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 Oh...makes more sense now. Talk with him about it to see if he won't get mad at me or something like that..Lol
Lani Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 well thats good news! Now clear it all with your buddy, and take things from there!
Author masabell Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 i haven't talked to my buddy cause he sleeping, now she is asking if I would ever date her and I said yes and then I asked her that question and she said she would date me.....
NateC Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 i haven't talked to my buddy cause he sleeping, now she is asking if I would ever date her and I said yes and then I asked her that question and she said she would date me..... There you go! Now you have the green light to set up something with just the two of you. Best of luck!
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