suladas Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 Going to get a drink alone is one of the best ways. Or if there is dancing, that is when a lot of guys will make a move to, but also have to look approachable not a bunch of girls in a tight circle. My opinion though, unless it's meeting them through a mutual friend, i'm not going to the bar to find someone for a relationship. It's purely a hook up place and that's it. Not saying it can't happen, but it's very unlikely.
Author Lani Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 Going to get a drink alone is one of the best ways. Or if there is dancing, that is when a lot of guys will make a move to, but also have to look approachable not a bunch of girls in a tight circle. My opinion though, unless it's meeting them through a mutual friend, i'm not going to the bar to find someone for a relationship. It's purely a hook up place and that's it. Not saying it can't happen, but it's very unlikely. Gah, no! I hate the dancing pickups, they're always so sleazy. Ultimately I'm not going out 'looking' for a relationship, but it's something I definitely want to be open to when I'm out and to make myself approachable if the right guy is around.
Author Lani Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 pink is a colour for little girls and drama queens.... DO NOT ever wear pink if you are over the age of 15.... or if you do, team it up with a unicorn jumper so that everyone knows you are f****g mental... lol WHAT? No unicorn jumper? Sh*t...
lakerman34 Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 I like girls that exude confidence, laugh and smile A LOT, know how to break my balls (tastefully and subtle), and are good at conversation. If you are just looking to PICKUP guys, then frankly and honestly, short shorts/skirts, high heels, and red. Nice perfume, let your hair done and straight. Show some cleavage. Your bound to get a bunch of shallow guys heading your way. 1
CptObvious Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Wear pink dont go over board with it. Pink sends a Signal to the brain of warmth and kindness Smile a smile shows your happy and inviting. dont wear any rings. Be eazy to talk to engage into conversation and interact in public places with everyone a guy that can see your Friendly with strangers will be more likely to approach or ease into conversations with you.Don't act fake be yourself. ... let dem titties out and wear booty shorts. That says to us "YOU GOT THE GREEN LIGHT BRO! GET IN THERE!"
Author Lani Posted January 31, 2013 Author Posted January 31, 2013 Thanks for all the helpful tips today guys! If only I'd known about my ****ty personality sooner.
ascendotum Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 You dont sound like a catch. Perhaps work on your personality some more . Hey OP didnt you ever get Girlfriend or Cosmo or one of the other variation s of chick magazines. They run articles all the time with different variations of 'the top ten ways to get noticed by that hot guy of your dreams'.
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 So, heading into the weekend, I'd love some advice on how to attract guys. Generally, I'm not great at it. And I'm not trying to be all 'wahh wah, guys never like me, blah blah', just stating facts. I'm headed out with a bunch of friends tonight for one of their birthdays, and I tend to get caught up in catching up with all of them when we're out. Is staying around your group of friends a bad idea, given that it may make it a little harder to approach me? Or does concentrating on them, and not other guys around, make me seem like I'm easy going and not too eager and with my man goggles on trying to spy whatever I can? Really, I just want some advice on what are the big should and should not's when out. What kind of guys? Usually when a woman asks here about attracting guys, she means a certain kind, type, or level of guys. When a man asks about attracting women, he means any woman.
Author Lani Posted January 31, 2013 Author Posted January 31, 2013 What kind of guys? Usually when a woman asks here about attracting guys, she means a certain kind, type, or level of guys. When a man asks about attracting women, he means any woman. To be honest, I don't know what exactly I'm looking for. All I know is that I want someone for a relationship, not just someone who wants a one night stand. I did have some success this night by the way (because it was two weeks ago), but nothing that's eventuated to anything exciting. Turns out one had a girlfriend, who I knew, and I met up with the other guy again and he was a total deadbeat weirdo.
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