Kristine Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 We had sex, it sucked I don't like his style and I do not want to see him ever again. I have tried ignoring him but I'm not that good of an ignorer I guess. I honestly have no interest in him any more. Not even as a friend, which originally was the pull. What do I do?
TouchedByViolet Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 How old are you? You can always just call him and tell him you are not interested anymore... 1
Author Kristine Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 I sort of did that, but it didn't work. He glossed over what I said. That's when I went into ignore mode.
skylark100 Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 We had sex, it sucked I don't like his style and I do not want to see him ever again. I have tried ignoring him but I'm not that good of an ignorer I guess. I honestly have no interest in him any more. Not even as a friend, which originally was the pull. What do I do? You simply tell him that you don't see a relationship going anywhere with him. Are you judging him from the sex only? that's pretty harsh. I am assuming you consented to having sex.
Enema Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 "It was nice to meet you, but I'm not interested in going out again. Take care." Text that.
Author Kristine Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 Not just on sex, there were other things I didn't like that just sealed the deal.
SJC2008 Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 I sort of did that, but it didn't work. He glossed over what I said. That's when I went into ignore mode. Sort of? You either did or you beat around the bush. If you beat around the bush any interested person is going to cling on to the ambiguity because it's not clear. Sex with someone the first time is often awkward. You probably weren't to into him to begin with. Or you expect a pornstar performance out of the gate!
charlietheginger Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 We had sex, it sucked I don't like his style and I do not want to see him ever again. I have tried ignoring him but I'm not that good of an ignorer I guess. I honestly have no interest in him any more. Not even as a friend, which originally was the pull. What do I do? close your legs and close your mouth he will go away That simple
SilentVoice Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 You aren't that gooder of a person either. You are an adult - tell him you aren't interested. Ignoring someone? Do you want someone to ignore you? Just tell him that you aren't interested. You will rather that he didn't contact you. Then block all forms of communitcation. Take some initiative to get him out of your life.
truth_seeker Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 We had sex, it sucked I don't like his style and I do not want to see him ever again. I have tried ignoring him but I'm not that good of an ignorer I guess. I honestly have no interest in him any more. Not even as a friend, which originally was the pull. What do I do? I can tell you what not to do: stop ignoring him! Act like an adult, give him a call. You tell him that while you enjoyed the time you spent with him, you don't feel any kind of connection and don't want to see him anymore. There. Done.
Lani Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 I've been in this situation, you need to tell him point blank that you're not interested. And that you tried to be nice about it, but he's not getting the picture so you're going to stop any contact with him. And then do that. Don't answer his calls or texts. If you're friends on social media, unfriend.
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