HeidiSURPRISEEEEEEEE Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 (edited) My friend told me to stop crying because I was getting his shirt wet crying and told me post this here because "I never seem to listen to anything he says apparently?"... And I'm so sorry if it's a little bit long but pleaseeee give me some advice! So this Mr. Wrong I'm dealing with.. we're from England and I always used to see him driving past me, I always thought he was super hot but most of the time he would be with a really pretty girl she was like a MODEL so I never thought he would be interested in me. And besides I knew he was bad news because of the people I knew he associated with they are not very nice people, and sometimes I would hear people talking about him, but then again people like to talk around here... it's quite sad. On the 1st of December I got a phone call at 2am in the morning and it was him (I don't still don't know how he got my number to this day), anyway he asked me for a certain persons phone number (he must have seen me with them)... but we carried on talking about silly things because I asked why he never smiles back when I smile at him driving past me lol. The next day he pulled over to me and my friends, they carried on walking and me and him talked, he said he was going to a cafe for something to eat and asked me if I wanted to go, we ended up staying out all day and went to a bar at night and I got really drunk, he took me back to his apartment and put me in his bed and he slept on his sofa which I really liked because he could have easily taken advantage of me! He made took me home the next morning and I text him that day and just told him that I had an amazing day and thankyou, I felt amazing was just so excited that I had met him. 2 nights later I called him and asked if we could hang out, he came to pick me up straight away and we went back to his apartment, we watched a movie, polished a bottle of vodka together and went to bed for what turned out to be the most amazing sex I have EVER had in my life, I didn't think it was possible, and considering he is only 21... I am 23 and I just didn't expect what he did that night, bliss. I started seeing him all the time after this night, and that is when I started to notice things, his phone would ring CONSTANTLY and he would never answer it while he was with me, or sometimes he would but he would go outside or in a different room depending on where we were, and when I say it rang constantly I mean like every 10 minutes... And sometimes when I stayed at his apartment he would go out really late at like 3am and come back at 4am... One night he did this and he came back with a friend, they woke me up talking loudly and I went into the lounge where they were and there was a gun on the table (guns are illegal in the UK)... I went straight back into the bedroom... when his friend left I said WTF basically, and he said his friend got into a bit of trouble but everything is fine don't worry about it. Since then I just kept on noticing really shady things while being around him, we had an amazing start to new years eve we went from Manchester all the way to London to see the fireworks at midnight, but we got into an argument in the hotel and left back for Manchester at like 3am... he drove at like 150mph and absolutely frightened the life out of me I thought I was going to die!!!! We argued all the way, he told me that I need to "mind my own ****ing business" and stop "going on" about these things and it's all in my head... yeah ok dan... I seen a gun on your ****ing coffee table, your friends are basically well known to be gangsters, you haven't got a job yet you pull money out of every hole you stick your hand in... it's all in my head? he must think i'm stupid. I would usually walk away from a guy like this, but when he's not acting like this, and when his phone is off and it's just me and him I feel like nothing else matters in the world, he takes me away from all of my worries and treats me like a princess, I have never known anybody like him, he is so bright and thoughtful when we are alone together, I melt inside when I look in his eyes. I haven't spoken to him since last night and he was really cold and distant when I did, and before that he didn't speak to me for 5 days!!! I don't know where I stand, he said he's "thinking" about stuff my friends think I'm crazy but I can't stop thinking about him. I don't know what to do :( Edited January 18, 2013 by HeidiSURPRISEEEEEEEE
whateveralready Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 I don't know what to do :( RUN and don't look back...you have no idea what this guy is doing or into and most likely from what you've written, it's not good or something you'd want to be associated with.
FitChick Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 Most men in prison have girlfriends on the outside. Is that what you want? As far as him treating you well when you two are alone, Hitler's former maid said he was a lovely man who was very polite and loved animals.
Author HeidiSURPRISEEEEEEEE Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 Most men in prison have girlfriends on the outside. Is that what you want? He's not in prison Anyway I talked to him this morning we went out for some breakfast and he told me he wasn't really looking for a relationship when we met, he said "there's something about me" and he does want to have me around. But I just got the impression that he's not exactly got plans to make me his girl and get away from the wildness he seems to be involved in. My friends have told me to cut him off but I can't!! I'm addicted
zachari Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 be very wary, if he is involved with organised crime (which it sounds like) it is usally nearly impossible for people to get out of it.... alive... and you could find yourself getting into some very hot water if things turn bad for him
Drseussgrrl Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 *sigh* You already know what you need to do. Yet you say you're addicted and can't walk away so I'm not really sure what advice you're expecting here. This is going to end very badly for you. All I can say is good luck, you're gonna need it. 1
weee111 Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 You're not going to change him...so either accept it or find someone else.
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