Kevin Q Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 So my ex broke up with me a month ago because she said she didn't want a boyfriend, want to get hurt, or cheated on which I won't and told her, we dated for a month. Today we had a ffa thing all day and me and her were really talking the whole time. So when I get home I get a text from her saying wanna hang out? So we did. I went there to help her with her homework. I did and threw out the time there we got sidetracked and talked about a bunch of different things. Some things seemed personal what she was telling me. She put her head on my shoulder when she was tired and she said that guys were trying to flirt with her during the FFA thing but she said she was only flirting with me. It felt like we were together without the kissing. So when I left I only have her a good hug. When I get home i get a text asking if I made it home ok. She said she had a good time and I said the same. I said hope you feel better cause she had an upset stomach, so I said I wanted to rub her belly to make her feel better but I said it might of been weird then she said hmm never know. The other day she was flirting with me over text too. I know i was to into the relationship and now that we broke up i realized i was and want/have fixed that. I want her back. What's going on here? Does she want to take things slow?
Blebly Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 Sounds like it to me Just play it nice and SLOW. You might get the girl
Author Kevin Q Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 Sounds like it to me Just play it nice and SLOW. You might get the girl Alright thanks! But I just asked her yesterday if she was free this weekend because it was last week we hung out. She said she had work and was busy with her horses after. She does have work and horses but when we were going out we would hang out after her work. Although when we hung out last week she didnt have work. There is also a turn about dance in a month. I asked if she was going and she said she doesn't know cause it will just cause drama. I asked how? She said this one guy that has been clingy with her later cause she doesn't like him will get mad and trash talk to her if she dances with another guy. I asked is she going wih him and she said noo and she might just go single with another girl. I said oh ok I was going to ask u but I thought u wudnt want to. She said maybe ya never know but I'm not decided yet. I said ok and she said yeah sorry.
fungusamungus Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 (edited) 9 times out of 10... the line "I'm not looking for a bf" means that she's just not that interested in YOU as a bf. She will not say that because you're a nice guy and she probably doesn't want to hurt your feelings, or she may not even know that herself, but truth is, if someone came along and she liked him enough, she would never drop that line on him. I know that's probably not what you want to hear, but that's how it typically happens. There are a lot of reasons why girls aren't ready to be in a relationship. But in just about every case, if she liked the guy enough, it would overshadow those issues and she wouldn't give up on him so easily. I remember a girl who told me the first time I made a move on her that she liked me but had just gotten out of a serious relationship and wasn't ready to get into anything, so we started out just having casual sex and we ended up dating for 2 years. Oh yeah, and if you keep nagging her about dating again, then she's going to get annoyed and you're going to push her away. Edited January 18, 2013 by fungusamungus
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