ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 This is why men need to wrap it up, each and every time. IIB if I was dating you and saw what you post here, I'd run far, far away. You seem like the type who would "forget" to take her pill or poke holes in the condoms. Well it's not like I'm dating anyone anyways and most guys don't even like using condoms. I'm only saying this because I have seen it work out, I graduated in 09 and at least 15 girls I graduated with got pregnant and after the my found out or had the baby they got engaged or married. Out if those 15 maybe like 5 are married 5 engaged and 3 still in a serious relationship with the guy and 2 single parents.. Odds look pretty good
Author jlindemann Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 Well it's not like I'm dating anyone anyways and most guys don't even like using condoms. I'm only saying this because I have seen it work out, I graduated in 09 and at least 15 girls I graduated with got pregnant and after the my found out or had the baby they got engaged or married. Out if those 15 maybe like 5 are married 5 engaged and 3 still in a serious relationship with the guy and 2 single parents.. Odds look pretty good I had a baby at 20, married at 22 to the father. Just like your friends. Today, I've grown up, and grown apart from him. Left him and realized we were married for ALL THE WRONG REASONS. Getting married BECAUSE you have a baby hardly ever works out. Let me know in a few years if your friends are all still married.
Drseussgrrl Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 Well it's not like I'm dating anyone anyways and most guys don't even like using condoms. I'm only saying this because I have seen it work out, I graduated in 09 and at least 15 girls I graduated with got pregnant and after the my found out or had the baby they got engaged or married. Out if those 15 maybe like 5 are married 5 engaged and 3 still in a serious relationship with the guy and 2 single parents.. Odds look pretty good Please go to law school and move to an urban area. You will see just how utterly ridiculous this is, and you'll be so glad you didn't fall in line with these teen moms. I guarantee you a good amount of them will be divorced before you know it, or have kids with multiple men.
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 But I will say my former therapist told me not to rush because she got married at like 22 and had kids soon and she and her now ex husband grew apart because they just did...they didn't really know like who they were you know?
Author jlindemann Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 we cant look inside his brain and we dont know him. you dont know him so long, so maybe he is just saying things like you are doing , just too keep the relationship cool. but i think he may be honest too you about that. men are often honest about having kids and marriage i think. you have too be honest anyway,otherwise you are wasting your time with someone that maybe just want too have fun I know it's too early in our relationship to worry about the future. I was just trying to find out from other guy's perspectives. Just wondering if there are guys out there that say that and 100% mean it. Or if they say that only because they haven't found THE ONE that they change their mind for.
Drseussgrrl Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 I know it's too early in our relationship to worry about the future. I was just trying to find out from other guy's perspectives. Just wondering if there are guys out there that say that and 100% mean it. Or if they say that only because they haven't found THE ONE that they change their mind for. I think deep down you want to be married, regardless of what you said to him initially, and you're hoping he'll be so in love with you that he'll change his mind. I think it's time you're honest with yourself. You want to be married. And it took falling in love again for you to realize it. You know what? It's ok to want to be married. Perfectly ok. But I wouldn't bank on him changing his mind about it. Eventually you'll have to be ok with this, or not. 1
Author jlindemann Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 I think deep down you want to be married, regardless of what you said to him initially, and you're hoping he'll be so in love with you that he'll change his mind. I think it's time you're honest with yourself. You want to be married. And it took falling in love again for you to realize it. You know what? It's ok to want to be married. Perfectly ok. But I wouldn't bank on him changing his mind about it. Eventually you'll have to be ok with this, or not. Thanks. I guess you're right. I suppose it wouldn't even be a thought in my head if I really didn't want it. But I do know that I would be OK with staying with him even if he never changes his mind.
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