yogi Posted August 22, 2004 Posted August 22, 2004 im not sure if this question/problem fits in on this forum, but im not sure where else it would be, so here goes. i have been with a girl for a while now and we really love each other, we see each other or at least be in contact with each other every day. But i havent seen her for three weeks because she is on holiday, and im in desperate need of some advice for her return. Should i be all "i missed you blah blah blah" or try my best to act as normal? how would you like to be treated on your return if you put yourself in her position. i know this seems a simple question, but i would like to be reassured, thanks
Curt Posted August 22, 2004 Moderators Posted August 22, 2004 The best thing anyone can probably say to you is to not "act" at all. Be honest with your feelings. It's always the best policy. Curt
krbshappy71 Posted August 22, 2004 Posted August 22, 2004 Did you miss her? Great! Tell her! What's to think about? Be yourself, isn't that what you did before she left? Ask her a billion questions about her holiday, hopefully she'll have tons of picts you can cuddle up and look at, just show her how much you are glad she enjoyed herself. Yah, it can be a bit hard to be the one "left behind" because our days really didn't change, we weren't bouncing around doing new and exciting things, they were. So, take the opportunity to give her the spot light. It will show you care and are happy she's home. My bf went to Europe this spring and yah, I felt kinda boring when he returned because nothing exciting happened while he was gone, so I just focused on him and showing him how happy I was he was home. Hope this helps.
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