How can you find date/love in this Digital age when all girls using Smartphones etc?

[quietGuy13]

You go to a cafe, girls with laptops and smartphones or ipods orwhatever.

Same in bus, same in bus stop,

 

same at work, same in highschools, same in college, .

even in concerts, everyone with their texting machines or iphones or whatever .

 

I think dating is really hard. Especially when a shy guy gets some courage and wants to try out his social skills BUT the women are all busy with their smart phones so it's impossible.!!!!!!

 

ANd now women /girls seem to use the phone/texter/iphone as a way to not feel lonely. so they always everywhere using that thing.

 

can't even talk to them anymore.

 

 

I've never had a date or nothing but if i want to try, how the heck can I when as i've said, all women are with gadgets.

 

Here are the stuff that women especially women in their 20s and 30s.

 

-iphones

-texting machiens/texting phones

-facebook with their smartphone

-ipod

-laptops

 

 

I'm male in my 30s

[StanMusial]

Good point... try striking up a conversation with a cutie at the gym. LOL.

 

I actually heard a girl tell her friend one time, about working out at the gym, "Don't wear your headphones all the time, how is a guy supposed to talk to you?"

[Enema]

All the online dating sites have phone apps now.

 

A lot of them are even GPS based and you can see who's up for a date in the near vicinity.

 

Time to evolve my man.

[MrCastle]

I'm trying hard to fight technology. No facebook, no online dating, I do love texting, but I don't have my face buried in my phone when I'm out in the world. I do think this is a problem with many young people. Not sure how you stop it without straight up telling them to take their ear buds out or tap them to get their attention so you can talk to them.

[IT Geek]

I always have some type of device with me so I don't look like a complete loser when I'm at a restaurant eating alone.

 

I also always wear my MP3 headphones when I'm hiking on known trails, at the gym, etc. The music helps motivate me. Plus, it's not like any woman is going to try to chat me up. LOL

[zachari]

Girls like confidence in males... strike up conversation, just make small talk with them to begin with... if they see confidence in you then they will notice you.

 

Ive started many conversations with girls that have been on their phone or laptop quite easily (not cause i was interested in them, im just a really social kind of guy), just because they are on it dont mean they are blind to whats going on around them.

[zachari]

That's why they are allowed to text and drive.

 

lol nope, not here in australia.... any use of a phone while driving is illegal (yes that means GPS as well if its used on a phone)