road Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 Here is something I've brought up before. For those who have participated in threads where a spouse has the opportunity to cheat, say by going out partying alot, or by other means. Some posters will acknowledge, based on the story being told, that the poster needs to nip any opportunity to cheat in the butt. Basically the person has to be their gf/bf/spouse's babysitter and police them. Have you ever heard: locks keep honest people honest. Good intentions fail all to often. People get tempted in life and cave in. Who has not done 65 mph in a 55 mph zone? Do not say it is only 10 mph over. Not 30, no collision, no hit and run, no one got killed. Why? Because you can't say it was only grinding on the dance floor, he only bought me a drink, only got touchy feely, only necked in his car, only, 2nd base. Drawing clear lines is not so easy because you can do 10 mph over the limit and never will have an accident. So we should not get speeding tickets for 10 over. Others will think different. This is why spouses, BFGF's, have to work at maintaining each others boundaries. Before you know it the line is crossed. The damage is done. The fender/marriage is repaired. On the surface the fender/marriage looks as it was before. Though under the new paint the damage/scares are still there. The broken cup is glued back together and works as before though the cracks will remain.
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