areejjaved Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 How many of u find NC a hard thing to do? I feel like i just break NC and text him right away and get things right with him but only if he'd reply... I know he wont reply.. And it breaks my faith and hope! Life feels so incomplete without him.. I wonder how he's feeling right now.. Is it also hard for him to keep NC just like me or not.... But i gotta stay strong and keep NC :/
FailedFirstLove Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 How many of u find NC a hard thing to do? I feel like i just break NC and text him right away and get things right with him but only if he'd reply... I know he wont reply.. And it breaks my faith and hope! Life feels so incomplete without him.. I wonder how he's feeling right now.. Is it also hard for him to keep NC just like me or not.... But i gotta stay strong and keep NC :/ It's the hardest thing to do!!! I was never able to do it. In still struggling so hard. I just want everything to be okay again. But nothings ok again... It's not my choice but I have to suffer
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 NC is meant to eventually heal you. A time for you to focus on yourself, be selfish and rebuild your self-worth, so you can eventually move on to better things. I agree, NC is incredibly hard. But it must be done, and please stay strong. It doesn't matter how he feels. Only you.
Coping Vortex Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 How many of u find NC a hard thing to do? I feel like i just break NC and text him right away and get things right with him but only if he'd reply... I know he wont reply.. And it breaks my faith and hope! Life feels so incomplete without him.. I wonder how he's feeling right now.. Is it also hard for him to keep NC just like me or not.... But i gotta stay strong and keep NC :/ I just read a bunch of articles that say NC is not good, that you should always keep communication open if you have any thought of wanting to get back with an ex. However, the articles said that if there is no no chance that your ex has moved on for good. Then use NC for you to get past them. Don't use it to get an ex back or if you have the chance to keep communication open.
Author areejjaved Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 Trust me, im struggling too.. It feels like its been forever since i last talked to him.. Its soooo depressing. And im a kind of girl who loves to laugh and smile and people around me always saw me smiling and i have to pretend around them that everything in my life is perfect but in real, its sooo not
Amelie1980 Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 NC is easy for me. because I love him SO much and want him so badly that any contact makes me feel so much worse. Because its not us anymore. its polite and awkward. it hurts more to hear from him. Last time I heard from him I was awake all night and nearly had a panic attack. I can't have another day like that. 1
Author areejjaved Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 I just read a bunch of articles that say NC is not good, that you should always keep communication open if you have any thought of wanting to get back with an ex. However, the articles said that if there is no no chance that your ex has moved on for good. Then use NC for you to get past them. Don't use it to get an ex back or if you have the chance to keep communication open. Im keeping NC because i want him to move on for good.. And somehere inside im also tired of trying to pull everything back to normal and he just sitting back and enjoying the ride. Whenever he got back together with me he used to tell me like he's sooo hurt but he want to spend his whole life with just me but still dont try to get things right with me and act like im not important to him.. So its better for me to keep NC for now I guess
Author areejjaved Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 NC is easy for me. because I love him SO much and want him so badly that any contact makes me feel so much worse. Because its not us anymore. its polite and awkward. it hurts more to hear from him. Last time I heard from him I was awake all night and nearly had a panic attack. I can't have another day like that. I've been there.. Thats why im always good to go at mornings but at nights every memory that i made with him hits me hard and force me to break NC. But i havent break it yet and i dont even want to risk another goodbye
Amelie1980 Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 I've been there.. Thats why im always good to go at mornings but at nights every memory that i made with him hits me hard and force me to break NC. But i havent break it yet and i dont even want to risk another goodbye So how often do you keep contacting?
na49 Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 NC isn't easy at all. It's just a part of moving on. Do I want to contact my ex? Yeah. I'd love to hear from her too. Just anything, she misses me, she wants to talk to me. Just to know that she's still thinking of me feels so great. ...and then it doesn't. She misses me but doesn't want to be with me? She wants to talk to me but only about her new boyfriend and how great he is? She's not thinking of me. At least not as much as I think about her. Gotta stay strong though!
Author areejjaved Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 So how often do you keep contacting? Well.. Its been an on/off relationship with him.. So its been two days since the last breakup.. And i dont know if i'd ever hear from him again or not...... Cant say anything about it because i know he's keeping his NC, even blocked me on facebook. He's stronger than me i guess
Author areejjaved Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 NC isn't easy at all. It's just a part of moving on. Do I want to contact my ex? Yeah. I'd love to hear from her too. Just anything, she misses me, she wants to talk to me. Just to know that she's still thinking of me feels so great. ...and then it doesn't. She misses me but doesn't want to be with me? She wants to talk to me but only about her new boyfriend and how great he is? She's not thinking of me. At least not as much as I think about her. Gotta stay strong though! Yeah i can understand, but i didnt exprience my ex's new girlfriend feeling.. I hope i never have to exprience it ever in my life! Gotta say you've been strong my friend... Goodluck for your future
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