cottom Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 To show her how you have matured? I was going to send her a message tommorow saying: "Good luck for your final exam today *****; i just thought id let you know i am getting on well. I had my final session with the relationship councillor monday and we talked about how things in the past affect our current behaviour. My communication course finished and i got my final grade in that as a very high pass. I have a job interview as a pipeline engineer for oil, designing oil and gas pipes located in Birmingham so i dont have to leave this town thankfully lol. I'm still taking my medication, i was given a month supply and i have to go into the Dr's next week to get myself checked to see if i can come off them yet or stay on them. I hope you can now enjoy your life and find someone that gave you everything you ever wanted like i did. Goodbye *****" Yay or Neigh? im in no contact, dont know if i want her back but having doubts cause of the situation she is in atm with the guy she rebounded within a week after us two being in her uni course and friend group.
Author cottom Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 (edited) Further info, we was in a perfect relationship for 2 years until she started at uni, we was just doing the same boring routine of me coming hers and teaching her her work like a tutor...other guys were flirting with her and coming and visiting every day having 'jokes and banter' with her...she started to doubt us as a couple, we had an argument and she went to this other kid who had been flirting with her (nowhere near as good looking as me but she said its not about looks cause he makes her feel happy). After we broke up i went and saw a relationship councillor to talk about where i was going wrong in life, i through out all old clothes and got new mature such as suits, and smart casual clothes, i went to a communication course for the past 4 months to learn about controlling emotions and also i suffer from bi-polar which i stopped taking medication and it really affected me Edited January 17, 2013 by cottom
fungusamungus Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 I don't really see why you would need to send an unsolicited update of your life. At the very least, wait for her to ask how you've been. If a girl is interested in what is going on in your life... she'll ask you. Especially if you were the one who got dumped.
darkmoon Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 you are writing to keep things going, or you'd stop worrying about what she thought, instead you're asking us here "Good luck for your final exam today *****; i just thought id let you know i am getting on well. I had my final session with the relationship councillor monday and we talked about how things in the past affect our current behaviour. My communication course finished and i got my final grade in that as a very high pass. I have a job interview as a pipeline engineer for oil, designing oil and gas pipes located in Birmingham so i dont have to leave this town thankfully lol. I'm still taking my medication, i was given a month supply and i have to go into the Dr's next week to get myself checked to see if i can come off them yet or stay on them. I hope you can now enjoy your life and find someone that gave you everything you ever wanted like i did. Goodbye *****" you spelled councillor wrong, it's counsellor, contact her when you've got the job it's more impressive going for an interview isn't much of an acheivement, and drop the last sentence, too much bonhomie that you think you ought to convey
geegirl Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 As you keep getting "neighs", this is another one. You're trying to appeal to her. Trying to sell yourself. Showing her your value. Please stop. Stay NC.
fungusamungus Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 To show her how you have matured? ... " I hope you can now enjoy your life and find someone that gave you everything you ever wanted like i did." This line is extremely passive aggressive and shows an absolutely epic amount of immaturity and resentment . 2
Sav Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 I think if you're having those thoughts then you haven't really matured in a way. Let things be. She has made her stance.
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