Onlyjonley Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Just curious. I don't like how Valentine's Day focuses on going all out for females. I get that we like the romantic, cutesy stuff more so than guys, but I also want my boyfriend to feel special on this day as well! My boy & I like to keep it low key. Nothing fancy or anything. So I have thought of a couple simple things to do. He gets coffee from Starbucks every morning before work, so I thought about dropping coffee & a treat off at his house that morning before he leaves, with something cute written on the cup. As far as gifts go, he has been wanting to improve his golf game, and with spring coming, I was thinking of getting him a 10 bucket punch card to the local driving range, as well as buying his favorite beer and maybe baking some goodies. Nothing over the top ..but want to make it thoughtful. Guys, what has made a Valentine's Day special for you? What is the most special thing you've had done for you? (Besides blow jobs!) And ladies, what are you doing for your significant others? I love getting new ideas & hearing input from others.
tman666 Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Hey now, why are blow jobs off the table? As far as Valentines Day goes, it's generally something that I don't especially care about, but it can be an excuse to make sort of a fun date night out of. I'm lucky in that my girl doesn't care if we go all out. I think last V-day we made a sushi dinner together at home, drank a bunch of sake, had some sexy-time, and went out to get frozen yogurt. I just feel sorry for the guys and girls who dump tons of money on V-day (super expensive dinners, horse-drawn carriage rides, jewelry, etc.). To each their own, I guess. As for myself, as well as a lot of other guys I know, low key together time is probably the best.
Author Onlyjonley Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 Blow jobs are a given! Ha. But yes, I really don't see the point in making it this big, grand ordeal. Last year, my boy made me a giant handmade card, bought some flowers, and we got sushi to go. It was simple and perfect! Also ..frozen yogurt sounds awesome right now.
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 My cheating ex was born on val-day and it cannot be special to me no more...
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Valentines Day is a bull **** holiday so... Yeah 1
tman666 Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Also ..frozen yogurt sounds awesome right now. That's because fro-yo is awesome... all the time.
Author Onlyjonley Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 Valentines Day is a bull **** holiday so... Yeah Why thank you for your help!
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Why thank you for your help! .... You're so incredibly welcome!
Necris Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 I miss Elementary School valentine's day, where everyone gave everyone candies and such. After Elementary School, valentine's day changed to a more special day so I never did anything or got anything from girls on Valentine's day (I never had a girlfriend in my life). So now I don't celebrate Valentine's Day, its just a regular day as far as I'm concerned.
Sun Devil Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 I hope to have a date this valentines day. If not, then I am buying an escort and going to pay extra for a girlfriend experience.
AMusing Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 I'm not a big V-day fan, so I've never gone all-out. Relaxed dinner at home with some wine & chocolates is great by me. In past relationships (when the man wants to celebrate it, I'm cool if we don't), we've let Feb 14th be mostly about treating me... that is, he cooks dinner, rents a movie, plans the night. Then of course I return the favor on March 14th (mmmm, steak).
Feelin Frisky Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Raw sex, a bit of chocolate. A squirt of eau de pootang in the face would be special.
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