AlexJensen Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Hey everyone. I hope someone can respond with some insight into this. Warning that its long but if anyone can please read and answer...Im confused! Just thought i would post as im a little worried im not over things. So to set it up i went out with this girl for a year and a bit. We fell deeply in love but broke up a month ago (i know sad that im still thinking about it but whatever). She has a bad reputation for cheating and moves from relationship to relationship but she seemed different with me, even her friends said this. Anyway problems started around 3 months from the end of the relationship. She admitted she caught a cab with her ex home at 5 in the morning drunk, then she undressed this dude infront of me in some club, then she went to another ex's for the night but 'nothing happened' but at this point i dumped her. She begged for me back for a week and cried and cried sending me huge messages...so i said i would skype her. That night she ****ed another dude and i initiated NC. She sent me merry christmas and i responded in kind to be polite. That was fine. But then it got weird... Firstly i heard from a mate that she had already had s*x with two guys after 10 days and was trying to get into another relationship...I was pretty gutted but it helped me move on a bit. However after new years, when my other ex started posting on my wall a lot, i get a message from her saying 'as if you have gone back to her' and then she added my ex on facebook and started liking her photos. she then posted photos on her own facebook sitting on another blokes lap and added me on fb. She then removed her own fb and added me on skype and then put fb back up. Immature i know. Anyway i ignored it all and didnt respond once and went on a skii trip and had a blast. I checked up on her on FB (i know i shouldnt have) and shes writing all these things to mutual friends she knows i can see that she 'is dressed to hook up' and then 'cant believe im single ' and 'looking for a date tonight girls' and other sh*t...even weirder she is copying my writing and humour style whilst doing so. So guys what is her deal? Is she being spiteful or has she so well and truly moved on she doesnt even care to have some respect?? I cant decide. I feel like she's trying to 'win' the breakup. Thoughts? ps she has ended badly with every boy to date, all of whom have been very jock like and 'cool'. Im quite the opposite haha.
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 She sounds like the classic serial cheat, overly partied girl. Spiteful? Yeah. Just a crazy whore man. Stop looking her up. She's no good, and will constantly be no good. She only wants to serve as a c*m whore, sorry. Stop even wanting her, just a b*itch. She's a bad girl. Get a good one. Reminds me of my ex, LOL. Trust me, no good.
TaraMaiden Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Hey everyone. I hope someone can respond with some insight into this.... So guys what is her deal? Is she being spiteful or has she so well and truly moved on she doesnt even care to have some respect?? I cant decide. I feel like she's trying to 'win' the breakup. Thoughts? ps she has ended badly with every boy to date, all of whom have been very jock like and 'cool'. Im quite the opposite haha. I hate to be abrupt, but - there is no reason why you should care, or even pay any attention. She sounds like a drifter, a 'sailor with a girl in every port' type of person. Just go complete No Contact, block, delete, unfriend, abandon, deny and ignore totally. That's the way to go. And at this juncture, you are the only one you should care about. That's it and all of it, really. 1
geegirl Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 The only one that stands to "win" is you. Remove yourself from this person. Who cares if she believes she "wins" the breakup? You should be relieved she's out of your life. That's winning. And no, you're not different. If you were, things wouldn't have ended up the same way it always has, and that's with her choosing to whore herself with other men. Aim higher. Seek better.
Second Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 She's no good, I know this may sound harsh and offensive, but really. No use dwelling over the past you had with her, and just move on. If her character has been like that all along, jumping ship all the time, all the more you shouldn't stay for her. If she can cheats someone else for you, she could cheat on you too. And trust me, the feeling when one cheats and leaves you hanging like that, is really saddening and painful.
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