StanMusial Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 I dont believe in drug use. I dont even take A asprin. Yes i married into the lifestyle. My wife had A nice ass and was good in bed. I was fooled Into thinking she loved me with sex. When the Sex was her weapon to get me hooked. It took 5yrs of being married to a alcholic before i realized Her intrest were not in me but in having me work To support her lifestyle . While she did what all Alcoholics do drain everyone around them emotionally A financially. Her drunken rages and duis resulted In 4 arrest while i was with her. Come to find out After being married she was arrested 2 times before We met. I could give a ratts ass what anyone says about me " being a downer " or "whiner" i dont want alcohol Anywhere near me in my house or to even be near it. Alcohol never did me good or anyone i know good. Someone suggested AA meetings thats a great idea. Maybe i could met people that are happy with no alcohol Required. Whew, even in my loneliest days I was so glad I didn't make the mistake of marrying a party girl. I messed around with plenty and it was a blast but when I was a man I put down childish things.
monicaelise Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Charlie, going out to the country isn't going to change a damned thing. My youngest son's father was from a little town called Fernwood in Idaho (pop. 450...yes four hundred and fifty). His entire family was a bunch of drunks. They hunt, fish, ski and DRINK. My former marine grew up in Pinetop-Lakeside, AZ (pop 4,150). Same story. His father finally gave up drinking after about two decades, but his mother is still a drunk. Getting out of the city will only put you in contact with a different kind of drunk. The kind that shoot each other in hunting "accidents" and roll their trucks into ravines or off cliffs. Drunks are everywhere. At least in a big city you can pursue other activities should you want to.
Lani Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 You're not getting the point... None of us are saying you should drink, or that you're a downer because you don't. It's your attitude towards the whole thing that is making you seem like an idiot. You don't need to constantly bring that up, and if you're doing this around women, i'm 100% sure it's a turnoff for them. Your ex wife is done with, stop mentioning her and move on. Take on the other advice you've been given here- don't focus on the don't drink/don't smoke stuff.
taiko Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 Calling them rednecks is the perfect place to start... I could have seen myself with Gretchen Wilson
oohlala Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 The city's definitely got its ills (if you want to call bars that) but if you look at the cities with the highest Oxy Cotin and meth abuse problems....well, just sayin'. Trouble is everywhere.
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