charlietheginger Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 I live in a decent sized area prob 1million plus Its great to meet women but not the kind i want To meet. Typical women in my area just goto bars Or burn through guys on dating sites. Interested in moving to the country and finding A redneck women. We can go mudding hunting Cookouts jetski on a lake or fishing. Sounds a lot Funner then sitting in smokey bars getting drunk. Any guys ever date a country woman?
Keenly Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 No, but one thing I have noticed about them is they tend to stick to their own.
Author charlietheginger Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 No, but one thing I have noticed about them is they tend to stick to their own. I can buy a 4x4 truck and listen to country. I hear redneck wives are like marring your best Friend they stick by your side and like being with Their men. Taking a chick 4wheeling and parking on the Local beach letting our dogs piss in the water And poop in the sand looks kinda fun. Near me Is a place on a cuaseway where rednecks goto Boat fish and let their dogs run around. I see These redneck guys with really attractive redneck Women.
CptSaveAho Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 I'm pretty sure the problem isn't the women....
Lani Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Calling them rednecks is the perfect place to start... 1
Author charlietheginger Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 I'm pretty sure the problem isn't the women.... I dont drink or smoke want a women that is the same. Ive gone on a few dates in the past 16months ive been Divorced. I could have easily and could now go out and Find date or girlfriend. Prob is finding a non drinker non Smoker. Ive told women after the first date When they follow up the next day with "i had a great time"..with " no thanks your profile Said your a non drinker non smoker goodbye"
Author charlietheginger Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 Fact is im athletic. I love staying active. Be it workingout Running,hiking,swimming. Most city women are drinkers That wanna drink at a bar or play lazy daisy on the couch. A redneck women looks more active. A women that does Not mind helping me change the brake pads on a truck Is my kinda girl.
CptSaveAho Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Like I said before... the problem isn't the women Part of It's where you are looking for them... you live in a city with a million people... yet OLD? If you are not looking for hookups/casual sex... OLD is pointless and actually gross. It breeds instant gratification and people that either choose to fail at least on a subconscious level or those few that do find someone to "settle" with someone they meet on there because they can't stand the thought of being alone so 2 people usually one with truckloads of baggage and the other person "sucker" (for accepting their baggage) meet up and enter relationships / marry for the wrong reasons It is pure and simple laziness... sit behind a computer... click a mouse... go on a few dates... enter a relationship... yah I win Do people not see how much of a quality person it takes to do OLD? Like I said... live in a city with a million people... choose to OLD... weird
Author charlietheginger Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 Like I said before... the problem isn't the women Part of It's where you are looking for them... you live in a city with a million people... yet OLD? If you are not looking for hookups/casual sex... OLD is pointless and actually gross. It breeds instant gratification and people that either choose to fail at least on a subconscious level or those few that do find someone to "settle" with someone they meet on there because they can't stand the thought of being alone so 2 people usually one with truckloads of baggage and the other person "sucker" (for accepting their baggage) meet up and enter relationships / marry for the wrong reasons It is pure and simple laziness... sit behind a computer... click a mouse... go on a few dates... enter a relationship... yah I win Do people not see how much of a quality person it takes to do OLD? Like I said... live in a city with a million people... choose to OLD... weird I dont drink or smoke . Met my wife at a bar 10yrs later were divorced becuase i got tired of going to bars. Im not gonna make that mistake again. You can take women outta a bar but you cant take the bar outta the Women . Meaning have fun with a barchick but dont marry One. Im looking for a quality woman. Sadly most good Ones are taken. Leaving alot or bipolar crazy women out There.
Lani Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Do you drink or smoke? I can't really tell... Anyway, I don't really know how you expect to go to the country and meet women that don't go to bars. I mean, what else are you going to do when you live in a country town? The local pub is the place to be. Do you plan to meet them at the shop? You can do that in the city. Maybe you'll meet them at the park? Oh hang on, pretty sure cities have those too? Do you plan to just go to their farms and meet them that way? Or you can just rock up to their apartment/house.. (it's creepy either place you do this, by the way) My point is that women are everywhere, and all places you'd find them in the country exist in the city...
CptSaveAho Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 The problem isn't the women.... notice the whole "avoidance" about online dating... quoted my entire post... then ignored / avoided it doobedoobe doo He chooses to be miserable... let him continue to be that way... If he wanted to be happy... he would make positive changes in that direction... the only reason he despises drinkers/bars etc is because he married into one and is ruined now because of it
Lani Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 The problem isn't the women.... notice the whole "avoidance" about online dating... quoted my entire post... then ignored / avoided it doobedoobe doo He chooses to be miserable... let him continue to be that way... If he wanted to be happy... he would make positive changes in that direction... the only reason he despises drinkers/bars etc is because he married into one and is ruined now because of it Not to mention he's far too busy on his high horse to be putting any reasonable amount of time into anyone else. 1
Author charlietheginger Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 This is maybe the silliest dichotomy I've ever heard. Guess what? I drink sometimes, go to bars sometimes, and go running/hiking/whatever other times. So does just about every single person I know. It's not a function of city/country. Actually, when I lived in rural areas, people I knew there were much less into going hiking and stuff. Also, do you seriously live someplace where smoking in bars is still legal? That still happens?!? Yes in florida smoking is allowed in bars. I came to the city met my exwife in a bar. We drank Smoked. Turned 30 relized our money was being pissed And smoked away. I stopped going with her out stayed home She decided to bring the bar home. 7nights a week she would Drink a 6pack of heineken and pack of cigs a day. Thats around $400 a month thats if she stayed home and drinking out Cost more. Her total cig and smoke bill was prob $600 a month In those 10yrs well over $60,000 in beer and cigs. Ontop Of it $15,000 in lawyers fees from her first dui when she Ran into another car. $6000 for her second dui
Author charlietheginger Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 Plus my wife bounced from job to job and could Not hold a job. Yes id say after $80,000 my wife spent on beer And cigs ill never date a drinker becuase any drinker Can get addicted. So no ill never date a drinker. No if uts or buts. Anyone that drinks thats your choice i dont have To approve or disapprove but i can chose not To be around alcohol. 1
Lani Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Plus my wife bounced from job to job and could Not hold a job. Yes id say after $80,000 my wife spent on beer And cigs ill never date a drinker becuase any drinker Can get addicted. So no ill never date a drinker. No if uts or buts. Anyone that drinks thats your choice i dont have To approve or disapprove but i can chose not To be around alcohol. Thats it? Did you even read anyones posts?
Author charlietheginger Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 Thats it? Did you even read anyones posts? I read the post some decent suggestions. Im thinking if a guy moved to the country Went to church he might meet a decent women. As for." Im anti drinker" comments yes i am Ill never drink again. Ill never get involved with One ether. If someone on this board is a drinker i dont care Thats your choice. My choice is to be alcohol free
Lani Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 I read the post some decent suggestions. Im thinking if a guy moved to the country Went to church he might meet a decent women. As for." Im anti drinker" comments yes i am Ill never drink again. Ill never get involved with One ether. If someone on this board is a drinker i dont care Thats your choice. My choice is to be alcohol free There are no churches in your city? I find that hard to believe. Being alcohol free is fine, power to you. But being all 'I DON'T SMOKE AND I DON'T DRINK!' all the time is boring to hear. You've mentioned it at least 5 times, and we all got it the first time. What I'm trying to tell you is think outside the square (maybe a little closer to it than the country) and look other places for women. They don't all go to bars, and not all that do are total party animals who need to be there all the time. But I'd suggest you don't go to bars anyway, seems like you'd be a total downer. Check out some websites for hiking groups and meet up with them, do the same for other hobbies you have.
Author charlietheginger Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 There are no churches in your city? I find that hard to believe. Being alcohol free is fine, power to you. But being all 'I DON'T SMOKE AND I DON'T DRINK!' all the time is boring to hear. You've mentioned it at least 5 times, and we all got it What I'm trying to tell you is think outside the square (maybe a little closer to it than the country) and look other places for women. They don't all go to bars, and not all that do are total party animals who need to be there all the time. But I'd suggest you don't go to bars anyway, seems like you'd be a total downer. Check out some websites for hiking groups and meet up with them, do the same for other hobbies you have. I joined metup softball and running mid 30s. Softball was ok Hit the ball around 45 spend 3hours in the bar outdrinking Other softball teams. Running was the same thing jog 4miles then sit a bar. seems to be the big thing in my city is mid 30s singles Just sitting in bars. Oh well younger thats their choice
Lani Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Your incessant whining is a real drag. No one, male or female, will tolerate that for long. Not without needing a drink anyway... 1
ascendotum Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 (edited) Plus my wife bounced from job to job and could Not hold a job. Yes id say after $80,000 my wife spent on beer And cigs ill never date a drinker becuase any drinker Can get addicted. So no ill never date a drinker. No if uts or buts. Anyone that drinks thats your choice i dont have To approve or disapprove but i can chose not To be around alcohol. Don't think that just because a girl is from the country they don't drink or smoke. I would be surprised that it is that different. My country relatives were maybe not into clubs or keeping up with the trend setters, but they certainly love to drink, not to necessarily get drunk, just big drinkers. Went out on the date with a 'country gal' not so long ago. She was bit too rough for me. If she could strike a match on her boot to light her ciggie she would have while talking out the side of her mouth. At the same time one of the prettiest girls I dated was born & raised in the country. Just a down to earth happy go lucky girl, no drama, friendly to everyone no matter if dork or alpha. Don't move, just do some day trips or weekend trips to some towns in your state to check out the local talent. Edited January 17, 2013 by ascendotum
CptSaveAho Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 (edited) He's full of crap... doesnt want to look in a mirror and see his faults so he chooses to mask them behind OLD and running away blame everything on the ex wife and take no responsibility that he chose to marry into that lifestyle and he is a part of that lifestyle... again doesnt want to look in a mirror Anybody that points out the obvious... he deflects like a PRO with self destructing behavior To the rest of you... see why OLD is bad... these people are on it Edited January 17, 2013 by CptSaveAho
StanMusial Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Redneck girls and country girls aren't always the same thing. I think what OP might be looking for is what I like to call "down home" girls. Down to earth and solid, what one might refer to as "she's good people" even though she is only one person LOL. Definitely relationship material and bring home to mama material if she meets all the criteria. 1
Author charlietheginger Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 I dont believe in drug use. I dont even take A asprin. Yes i married into the lifestyle. My wife had A nice ass and was good in bed. I was fooled Into thinking she loved me with sex. When the Sex was her weapon to get me hooked. It took 5yrs of being married to a alcholic before i realized Her intrest were not in me but in having me work To support her lifestyle . While she did what all Alcoholics do drain everyone around them emotionally A financially. Her drunken rages and duis resulted In 4 arrest while i was with her. Come to find out After being married she was arrested 2 times before We met. I could give a ratts ass what anyone says about me " being a downer " or "whiner" i dont want alcohol Anywhere near me in my house or to even be near it. Alcohol never did me good or anyone i know good. Someone suggested AA meetings thats a great idea. Maybe i could met people that are happy with no alcohol Required.
Author charlietheginger Posted January 17, 2013 Author Posted January 17, 2013 He's full of crap... doesnt want to look in a mirror and see his faults so he chooses to mask them behind OLD and running away blame everything on the ex wife and take no responsibility that he chose to marry into that lifestyle and he is a part of that lifestyle... again doesnt want to look in a mirror Anybody that points out the obvious... he deflects like a PRO with self destructing behavior To the rest of you... see why OLD is bad... these people are on it Just the opposite i realize you cant save people. I got sucked into the lifestyle becuase my exwife A alcholic told me she loved me. My fualt is I Often feel sorry for people and try to help or Fix people. Im not gonna make the same mistake Twice. Im alcohol free and will only date non drinkers
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