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somedude81 Established Member

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Sorry attractive girls don't like anime or comic books.

Pay no attention to the background the girl in my avatar is in.

 

No, that is not Luffy in the bottom left.

 

damn... I guess I'm ugly then :p

Picture?

chex Established Member

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Pay no attention to the background the girl in my avatar is in.

 

No, that is not Luffy in the bottom left.

 

 

Picture?

 

To be fair, a lot of girls who actually like comic books and such just aren't open about it, as there's a lot of misogyny in many video game and comic book fandoms.

KungFuJoe Established Member

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According to this thread I must be a guy who's attractive as **** and a major alpha. I didn't even have to ask anyone out to get into a relationship holy ****.

 

And I'd say the gal I'm dating is 'above average' but hey, everyone's got different preferences.

 

No ****. LS has actually boosted my self esteem tenfold. I used to think I was just a decent guy, but now I know that I'm a super charismatic, wealthy, extrovert with hollywood movie star looks.

 

Thanks Loveshack!

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chex Established Member

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Found a pic of tigerwolf.

 

:p

 

DAMN SEXY! Wow I can't believe it. He must be an alpha. Leads the pack, ya know?

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Leigh 87 Established Member

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I read Y: The Last Man Standing and Preacher........

 

Anime nope. Other mainstream comics nope.

 

There are always surprising elements to people. If only youre willing to look. Attractive or not at some point we have to progress spiritually and intellectually.... Right?

 

So if only above average women had all the success or even most of it, then why are there plenty of average looking people in relationships? Its not only with their own "league". And I dont believe in that crap anyway. I like who I like.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I always say that! There are plenty of ugly or plain women who have super loving, wonderful partners!

 

Look! It is about the "feelings" you have towards a person!

 

When a guy meets a girl or comes into contact with them, he will just "have" a feeling about her.

 

She could be the most beautiful women in the world, but simply lack the deep feelings towards her. He does not feel "it" with her, even if she is his dream girl in theory!

 

...Then an average girl could meet that guy, and he would just "feel" it with her.

 

 

 

 

You know, hot people actually are at a disadvantage in the long term relationship arena....

 

BECAUSE: even if a guy does not feel "it" with her, many guys STAY with women because they are so good looking, because they want to give their feelings a chance, they think "wow, I have to keep seeing her and hoep it works out, she is hot and a great girl, I want things to work out"

 

They will stay even though they lack the "it" factor with them - the "feeling" you get when you meet a person you have the potential to fall deeply in love with.

 

The ONLY advantage beautifull women have in dating, is that WAY more guys consider them to begin with!

 

It has no bearing over how many men feel "it" with her..... They just are able to TRY it out with more men than average chicks, and therfore maybe find the "one" faster then a plain women who gets asked out once a month, rather than once or more a week like her super hot sisters.

 

And like I said; I hot, intelligent, and kind women, will attract a lot of men who will WANT to stay with her because she is a good catch on paper, even if they lack the fundamental feelings for her..

 

Therefore, I am sure many beautiful women will be out of the dating game, with men who WANT it to work with them, even though they lack the "it factor" with them in terms of deel feelings.

 

 

 

...Does anyone actually understand this? I do, it makes perfect sense to me...

 

I really believe in the "feeling" between a man and a women, I believe it is a feeling that is necessarily for the deepest of love, and a feeling that is either "there" or "not". And has nothing to do with looks.

somedude81 Established Member

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DAMN SEXY! Wow I can't believe it. He must be an alpha. Leads the pack, ya know?

Heh's, it's a girl, but you need to get a bit closer to check :p

Leigh 87 Established Member

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Oh please, this comic book thing is ridiculous!

 

Maybe if you get out and were able to travel around the world and see 'hot" women from ALl walks of life, countries, and backgrounds.....

 

You would realise that plenty of HOT women ARE nerds: they DO love comic books..

 

Just on average, where you live, you are not exposed to enough beautiful women to get close and personal with them and find out their interests!

 

..I know a lot of nerds and women who are conventionally MUCH hotter than me, they are petite great little bodies, small noses and nice features....... Yet they dress badly or very conservatively, and do not appear outgoing or like they enjoy their looks or bother much with them...

 

Where as I am less attractive, I have a crooked nose that is not small and girly, but I grow my hair long, and do things with myself that displays how attractive I am more clearly. I try hard to be feminine and look my best.

 

SOme girls are very very good looking, but you just do not notice them, because they are wearing grey and brown, hide their small bodies, and their cute faces are burried in a book and they do not smile much or act outgoing around people.

 

I see it ALl the time actually... Chicks who are much prettier and thinner than me, better bodies than me.... Who get WAY less male attention than

chex Established Member

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It really doesn't matter at all if you're a ****ing beta. If you're a beta that loves comic books or video games or whatever' date=' you will be passed over in favor of the alpha male that she has nothing in common with. So at the end of the day, it doesn't matter whether you or the girl or nerds and you both love Shakespeare. If you aren't an alpha male, then you're just pissing in the wind. A hot girl is still a hot girl.[/quote']

 

The thing is that alpha guys could be into that **** too. Or this alpha ideology is full of ****, and anyone can get chicks if they look pretty good and have some confidence.

somedude81 Established Member

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It really doesn't matter at all if you're a ****ing beta. If you're a beta that loves comic books or video games or whatever' date=' you will be passed over in favor of the alpha male that she has nothing in common with. So at the end of the day, it doesn't matter whether you or the girl or nerds and you both love Shakespeare. If you aren't an alpha male, then you're just pissing in the wind. A hot girl is still a hot girl.[/quote']

That I agree with.

 

It really does seem that girls don't care about common interests at all.

 

Decent looking somewhat nerdy girl that likes video games and anime vs. hot girl that can't stand the stuff.

 

I'd chose the nerdy girl every time.

 

Decent looking somewhat nerdy guy that likes video games and anime vs. hot guy that can't stand the stuff.

 

The girl will choose the hot guy every time, even if she was a nerd herself.

KungFuJoe Established Member

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For dating, common interests don't mean jack.

 

But for long term...they slowly start to move up the priority ladder.

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TheBigQuestion Established Member

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That I agree with.

 

It really does seem that girls don't care about common interests at all.

 

Decent looking somewhat nerdy girl that likes video games and anime vs. hot girl that can't stand the stuff.

 

I'd chose the nerdy girl every time.

 

Decent looking somewhat nerdy guy that likes video games and anime vs. hot guy that can't stand the stuff.

 

The girl will choose the hot guy every time, even if she was a nerd herself.

 

No way. You totally don't even see fat chicks as people. You wouldn't date any girl without D cup breasts. You always get attracted to girls 10 years your junior. You should lower your physical standards (because that always works out for both parties, amirite??).

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chex Established Member

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No way. You totally don't even see fat chicks as people. You wouldn't date any girl without D cup breasts. You always get attracted to girls 10 years your junior. You're a shallow pig. You should lower your physical standards (because that always works out for both parties, amirite??).

 

There. I preemptively gave every answer you always get on here whenever you mention any sort of physical or personality preference. Are there any I forgot? :D

 

He said decent looking c: not ugly

 

I think physical preferences are really important -- essential if you want the relationship to be sexual

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somedude81 Established Member

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No way. You totally don't even see fat chicks as people. You wouldn't date any girl without D cup breasts. You always get attracted to girls 10 years your junior. You should lower your physical standards (because that always works out for both parties, amirite??).

 

 

 

Just as chex stated, I said decent looking. No I don't think fat women are decent looking. Does that mean I don't think of them as people? Of course not. Below average, but still human.

 

The D cup thing is preference. You should look it up.

 

And no, I'm not going to stoop to your level by giving you an insult.

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William Established Member

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Did someone mention moderation? Folks, there's no room for disrespect couched in sarcasm. Save it for your in-person beef sessions. Stick to the topic and keep it civil and no mentions of moderation. Some posts have been edited and/or deleted. Thanks.

Els Established Member

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That I agree with.

 

It really does seem that girls don't care about common interests at all.

 

Decent looking somewhat nerdy girl that likes video games and anime vs. hot girl that can't stand the stuff.

 

I'd chose the nerdy girl every time.

 

Decent looking somewhat nerdy guy that likes video games and anime vs. hot guy that can't stand the stuff.

 

The girl will choose the hot guy every time, even if she was a nerd herself.

 

Girl dating a nerd right here.

 

No, not out of lack of options either, though I'll admit I haven't had as many as the 'hot girls'. ;)

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somedude81 Established Member

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Girl dating a nerd right here.

 

No, not out of lack of options either, though I'll admit I haven't had as many as the 'hot girls'. ;)

He's a lucky guy.

 

The past few girls I've asked out were nerdy girls and they turned me down.

 

I wish I knew why.

aussietigerwolf Established Member

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prefer the nerdy guy too...

 

sure the hot guy is nice to look at but if we have nothing in common then what's the point??? I have 7 seasons of supernatural if I want to look at hot guys.

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Leigh 87 Established Member

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Lol? Is this a serious question? You should already know that women are hard-wired to go for top-tier alpha males. If an alpha male isn't available, she'll go for the next best thing, lesser alphas. If you're a beta, consider yourself settled upon. There's a reason women go for alpha males because they make them feel like - well, women. Flaccid beta males can't do that. Despite being nerds, nerdy girls are still girls. They have the same attraction triggers as other girls and are attracted to the same traits as other girls. Why do you think guys like Brad Pitt, Christian Bale, Will Smith, Daniel Craig, and Ryan Gosling are universally swooned over by women of all stripes?

 

Rule of thumb: a woman would rather be part of a harem of a top-tier alpha male than be joined at the hip to a beta.

 

If you're asking "why" at this stage of the game, then you clearly have a long way to go Young Padawan.

 

 

 

 

WHATEVER.

 

I am not ugly, I have options, but I AM NOT AT ALL INTERESTED I THE BEST LOOKING, APLPHA F*CKING MALES.

 

MAN. You.. Just talk utter CRAP!

 

Alpha? Beta? WTF!

 

Plenty of girls like me go for men who they come accross, because they are funny, they have chemistry, and the girl is OPEN to ANY man who is the right guy for them, even if they are not hot.

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Leigh 87 Established Member

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That I agree with.

 

It really does seem that girls don't care about common interests at all.

 

Decent looking somewhat nerdy girl that likes video games and anime vs. hot girl that can't stand the stuff.

 

I'd chose the nerdy girl every time.

 

Decent looking somewhat nerdy guy that likes video games and anime vs. hot guy that can't stand the stuff.

 

The girl will choose the hot guy every time, even if she was a nerd herself.

 

 

 

 

Whatever. Not all girls are like that. I'm not.

 

I am open to meeting the right guy, that is my dating mentality.

 

I go by the "feelings" we have towards each other, and how we make each other feel, and how we connect etc etc blablabla.

 

I totally do not take his looks thing into account! I do not have to even be attracted right away, but I do have to BECOME attracted once I start to like them.

 

WHich i have (become attracted ONCE I became into them) but not from the outset.

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Els Established Member

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He's a lucky guy.

 

The past few girls I've asked out were nerdy girls and they turned me down.

 

I wish I knew why.

 

Well, him being a nerd isn't the ONLY reason I agreed to go out with him. ;) I definitely don't think both parties being 'nerds' automatically guarantees success or compatibility. It's a nice bonus to have someone who shares my interests, but it isn't the end-all-be-all.

 

We've given you tons of self-improvement suggestions, so go get 'em boy!

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