Stoic44 Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 Two weeks out of a breakup. She went back to the ex. Our relationship was short, like one month, but I got emotionally involved. I've got a few girls on the hook who I can take out for drinks and they'll wind back at my place...and they both know there's no commitment involved. One has been texting me every few months for years, wanting to hook up. I dunno. Would it make me feel better? I'm reading a Psychology Today article that rebound things do help the dumpee overcome attachment to the dumper, though the trick is for your rebound person not to become attached. Any thoughts? Sex while you're still missing someone else?
Victoria Lake Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 My mom kinda gave me the same advice , but I'm not sure what to say about this. On one side, I guess it'd be fun to have an adventure... on the other side, I don't know if it would help me because I miss my ex as a person, I miss the intimacy we had, and not the "mechanical" act. You know, I keep having these strange dreams in which I'm having sex with older guys (I'm in my 20's, they're in their 40's) - it has never been a fantasy of mine, and even in my dreams I miss my ex and I feel guilty for being with someone else while I still think about him... I'm not sexist, but I'm a girl - so maybe we see things differently? who knows...
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