Anybody Else Feel Like They Didn't Say Everything They Needed To?

[Victoria Lake]

Hmm, interesting question... and I think I'm with NoMoreJerks on this one. I could have said all kind of things to him, but I decided to shut up and leave - and I don't really regret it. I can't be mean with people I care about, even if they are mean with me.

 

There is a saying that goes something like "A quiet man is usually thinking; a quiet woman is usually angry." I was angry and sad and disappointed during our "final" conversation, but I felt that I can't change his mind anymore, so I just left...

 

I remember when another ex of mine left me out of the blue (everything seemed to be a fairytale, and then boom); after I went for NC I kept playing on and on and on all kind of conversations in my head - I was thinking about so many things I could have said, but didn't. The good side was that after a while, my scenarios became so coherent that I realized what went wrong and why I was so sad.