PogoStick Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 One difficult part of breaking up is time passes so slow! Recap: I resisted commitment and struggled with depression. She felt it better we live apart so I had to move out of state to get back on my feet. We had 3 weeks until the move out date so we spent the time being as strong a couple as we could; going on some dates, dinners, regular sex. The first month apart she was missing me and talked about visiting. It's been dying down and now she's mostly enforcing NC. It's frustrating she never gave much explanation, just need space and to work on ourselves. We never had a blow out and ended on as good of terms that one could hope for. I just keep wanting to think there's room to fire things up when I move back to the same area. She clearly had feelings for me and I expect to really have it all together when I return in 6 months. I think it's easy to ignore feelings while we're apart but I want to believe they will come rushing back when we are face to face again. Anyone want to speculate what my (or our) future may hold? I plan to let her NC for a while and will feel her out over the coming months.
Stoic44 Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 Sounds like a combination of physical distance plus some of your own issues. If your own issues are solved when you move back, and she still loves you, there's a chance.
Author PogoStick Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 Without a doubt I'm committed of taking advantage of this time to turn my life around. I have 6-9 months where I can really focus on myself with few distractions. I'm excited for that and I'll come out many times better no matter what happens with the relationship. Still I know we have some positive connections to build upon if we're willing to remove the negative things from the relationship. I'm doing that on my end. I'm just hoping she'll be open to the process.
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