drifting159 Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 Maybe I'm over thinking this. I should probably give some background on this though... About 3 years ago I was introduced to a girl through a mutual friend. We were introduced with the sole purpose of seeing if there is any connection between us. We ended up dating for about 6 month. And when I say dating - it was very casual. I mean it was the epitome of casual dating. We kissed, but never slept together or anything, and it was never "exclusive." Eventually I realized that she was in part trying to keep me at a bit of a distance and after talking to her about it, I found it was because she had somewhat recently gotten out of 5 year relationship and, while she did like me, she wasn't "sure what she wanted" at that point. I was fine with that but understood that we were not exclusive. Well, a little while later I met someone else and ended up in a serious relationship with the other girl for 2 years. During that time she (the girl I casually dated) ended up in a serious relationship as well. Flash forward to maybe 3 or 4 months ago, I got a text from her. I don't know if it was a coincidence or not but she sent it 3 days after my 2 year relationship had ended. She was also single as of a few months ago. I live 1.5 hours away from her but am usually around where she lives on weekends. her and I ended up getting together for a drink that weekend and it was great. we have stayed in touch ever since and see each other when we can (as I said, we live an hour and half apart). We had even talked a bit about our past what was different now and she certainly seems to have a different attitude. I don't know, I guess you could say we are dating again. She had made a comment that tells me she feels we are, and I have met many of her good friends, as well as a few of her cousins and her aunt. This brings me to today. Valentine's day is not very far away. Assuming things continue to go well, I am considering sending her flowers. However, if i did this, I would likely send them to her where she works. She is an elementary school teacher. I'm really not sure why, but for some reason I feel like this may be to bold a gesture. I would be fine sending them to her house, which I guess I could do, but I don't know, with all of her co-workers (some of which I've met) and the young students, part of me thinks it might be too much. What do you think? Would it be to much (or even inappropriate) to send her flowers at work or is a somewhat bold move like this exactly what I should do?
Kylar Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 If she realizes that your current situation is a romantically inclined one I'm sure she will love it. It gives her something to parade around her co workers.
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