samsungxoxo Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 I haven't yet share this but I wouldn't like the same thing that happened to my mother done to me. It turns out my father never really loved her and she was only a rebound. Obvious signs: he never told her ''I love you'' during their whole marriage and he can at times be controlling towards her (sometimes getting confrontational if she verbally challenged him and several times I called him out on it). My mother doesn't care anymore and is only with him because my brother is 10 year-old. The ex gf he supposely loved has already been married about 2-3 times and never once contacted him. Anyways, how do I know it's Mr Right when it becomes my turn to get married (I don't want kids but do want marriage one day) and I'm not a rebound and he won't ever showed abusive nor controlling signs?
Author samsungxoxo Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 I had my suspicious for a long time that my parents' marriage isn't the one where both people loved each other. It always seemed like he would treat her the same way he treats a friend or roommate. Same thing with my father... he is only there because of my brother.
Author samsungxoxo Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 (edited) Then again, I wouldn't put up for 1 second with someone controlling and unloving but still....I don't even want to waste a minute of my time with someone like that. Another thing I learned:he didn't even buy the ring when proposing. It was actually given to him by my maternal grandmother, which then he gives it to her. Edited January 16, 2013 by samsungxoxo
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