2sunny Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 What I put in quotes was NOT what I actually said... it was what I was feeling though. Trying to figure out how to stop her putting out the vibe to me that she was. Again, she treated me like her boyfriend. I'm still yet to hear any of you say anything bad about her for treating a married man like her own boyfriend! What's your response to that? Regardless of you guys trying to make me out to be a typical ********* man, I'm feeling better about where I am now and am at least on a path to closure. I've prevented a physical relationship from happening, which is still a bit of a win. I'm sorry you all hate me because I didn't do it the way you wanted, but I guess that's how it has to be. Remember, it takes two to tango... and I'm the one that stopped it before it truly did go to far! I hate getting defensive on here, because I am truly looking for advice. But it seems the more I say, the more I"m hated. It's interesting that I was talking to you - yet you chose to minimize YOUR intent (because yes, you would have shagged her) - but more than that YOU turned it all around to blame HER. Interesting but typical denial and more gas lighting - just to avoid blaming YOURSELF for what your INTENT was ( to be with her). Bottom line remains the same = you were WILLING TO CHEAT. That is on YOU. 1
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