MikeOlf Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 I'm wondering where did the worthy women went. Now it's nothing but the party girls that either drink too much, are heavy smokers or sleep around. At first I was actually looking for a virgin woman (I admit to still being one myself at the age of 22) but now I guess I can take it if her number was like manybe 3 or 4. Yet, even that is hard to find. Or should I just give up and don't ask about her past. Even so she's gonna lie anyways. At times, I still dream about finding that virgin girl, that way we would be each other's first. Reason I'm still single is because they don't have the qualities I'm looking for. What's the point of a pretty girl if either her personality suck or she's been around the block?
Author MikeOlf Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 My search for her began way back in my sophomore year in high school and till now, I have no luck.
Balzac Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 Stop shopping @ Bait N Tackle for your gourmet needs. 3
carhill Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 To put it in fishing terms, try fishing a different pond. As a bulletin from fish and game, women have been 'wild' for quite some time now, at least for another generation prior to you being born. The issue isn't really anything new. Like another fish 'jumping', the wild ones are more visible. That doesn't mean they're the majority or 'so many'. They're just easier to see. Fish a more placid pond. Good luck. 1
Author MikeOlf Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 Stop shopping @ Bait N Tackle for your gourmet needs.What if I'm a virgin myself? I can understand if I was one of those studs than you would have the rights to call me a hypocrite because that wouldn't be fair. I get that. But I want my first time to special and it's not going to happen with a hooker you meet at a bar. 7 years of looking for her (I was 15 then).
chex Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 Wow sounds like you have pretty freaky high expectations. Good luck.
Author MikeOlf Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 Fish a more placid pond. Good luck.I've been trying and even smart women had wild hook-ups too. I was once on a date with this pretty and smart girl with 3.7 GPA but heard elsewhere that she's wild. See what I mean? No luck Even bookworm girls nowadays can be wild at the same time too. But I'll keep looking.
Author MikeOlf Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 Wow sounds like you have pretty freaky high expectations. Good luck.Nope. If I'm a virgin, I'm looking for either that or at least close to it.
Balzac Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 To be clear: I am not calling you a hypocrite. Nothing wrong w virgins. Your desires and criteria are well defined, that's good. What I'm suggesting is that such women exist, if you are not finding them in the places you're looking ~ expand your search to target rich venues. These women are out there, trust me.
SensitiveTJ Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 Nope. If I'm a virgin, I'm looking for either that or at least close to it. Don't despair. I am currently dating a woman who was a virgin at 19 when we first met. And yes, she is very attractive, before anyone asks. So they are out there. On the other hand, since lack of sexual experience wasn't something I was specifically looking for, I don't have too much advice on finding a person that fits that description. But as a general rule 1) If you aren't finding what you seek, look elsewhere 2) Improve yourself as best you can, so that when you do find a suitable person chances are good you can spark their interest. 2
carhill Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 I went through the same thing when a young man. Add in the burgeoning drug culture of the times and it made for some pretty disheartening anecdotes from the annals of 'boy do I feel out of place around here'. Solution: Find another place. Currently, your place is fixed due to education so that's a great aspect to focus on. Down the road of life, what you do for yourself right now will matter far more in the long run than any woman you'll date. That's difficult to reconcile when hormones and peer pressure are raging but it'll become more clear over time. Like another LS'er opined, keep doing what you do and keep your eyes open for people of similar mind and style. They're out there. Oh, last tip: Don't believe everything you hear. Verify. Good luck.
serial muse Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 I've been trying and even smart women had wild hook-ups too. I was once on a date with this pretty and smart girl with 3.7 GPA but heard elsewhere that she's wild. See what I mean? No luck Well, did you like her during the date? If so, who told you she was wild and why did you believe them and not your own judgment? Maybe you should just come to your own conclusions? 1
Necris Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 Wow sounds like you have pretty freaky high expectations. Good luck. That's pretty terrible if it has gotten to the point where just wanting a quality non-promiscuous woman who is a virgin like one self is considered freakishly high expectations.
Author MikeOlf Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 Well, did you like her during the date? If so, who told you she was wild and why did you believe them and not your own judgment? Maybe you should just come to your own conclusions?Her cousin who in turn happens to be one of my friend's friend. The world is so small. Everything is known and nope, he wouldn't make up something like that. When I asked her about it, she didn't want to talk about it. If it wasn't true, she would have immediately gotten upset and said ''It's not true'' instead of saying nothing in return. I have good judgment and if I'm told something, it's usually they I'm close to telling me about it. What helps more is watching the woman's reaction if you ask about her past. 1
Author MikeOlf Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 Maybe you should just come to your own conclusions?I did and it was true.
soccerrprp Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 What is the purpose of this thread? I don't know where your looking, but I have yet to meet women as you describe. I'm certain they exist, but not where I am looking.
Author MikeOlf Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 What is the purpose of this thread? I don't know where your looking, but I have yet to meet women as you describe. I'm certain they exist, but not where I am looking.I'm gonna head towards another library or church. I'm telling you it's getting harder to find them. 50 years ago it would've been very easy but now, it's like finding a needle in a haystack.
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 Most people are "wild" these days. Not just women. Now, there are reasons for this which I won't go into. But, suffice it to say that it's the norm for people to be a little promiscuous in their younger years and to generally judge those who haven't. Most of the non-promiscuous, sociable men and women who aren't afraid of sex are married by age 25 or so. That's just the way it works. You might as well suck it up and accept that anyone you date will most likely have a history. You don't have to talk about it or know about it, but you need to accept that it exists. 1
serial muse Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 I did and it was true. So you didn't like her then, while you were on the date?
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