napy666 Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 My friend is talking to a few guys one she's been dating since November 2012. This other guy she's also talking too since December 2012 had invited her to Universal Studios and offered to buy her their yearly pass, to her she thought that if she had gone with him and taken his offer that, that was a sign of him wanting her to be his girlfriend but I told her no it was just a date. A lot of people go on dates some can be out there and "wow" a theme park for a first date cool while others are typical movie and dinner or coffee etc. So she told the guy she didn't want to go because she had plans but she told me she didn't want to go because she thought by inviting her to this type of date the guy wanted her to be his girlfriend. Also she didn't want to go to the park or out on dates with this guy because she didn't want to take the chance of running into 1 of the other guys while out.
NateC Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 And this is why multi-dating is ...complicated. 1
carhill Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 Sounds like the theme park guy has never dated the lady and that they were 'talking'. Sometimes a date is just a date. Does this lady collect 'orbiters'? If she has no desire to date the theme park guy, why is she talking to him? His intentions obviously aren't platonic. If she wants to date him, but wants to date other men, she can suggest a more exclusive venue for their interactions. Buying someone a year pass to a theme park for a first date, if I read that right, sounds a bit over the top to me.
Ninjainpajamas Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 Seems like she's more into the November guy than the December guy? Women typically switch gears as a way of "rebelling" against the first guy not wanting anything more than a wet hole, and therefore "moving on" by also continuing to see him as well as dating another new guy...but then she still likes the original guy but he's not coming along. Or is she just not into either of them enough to be enticed by that offer? IF she was into the other guy she'd had went, I know that much. But I don't know her history and you're telling me from third person (btw why are you asking this question?)...at any rate though, maybe Romeo will swoop in and be the best guy ever (having what both of these guys have or more! yippeeee!) and sweep her off princess feet ::sigh:: a girl can dream!
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