Don't Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 My ex and I have been broken up for almost month. I haven't contacted her for a while since the break up or I did minimum contact on fbook that's all. She messaged me today saying "Hey if you're not busy in the next day or two we can meet to exchange things. I have your cell phone and rock band. Is there anything else you can think of?" I just said ok and she asked when i am going to be available and i said maybe tomorrow i don't know and i couldn't help myself started talking about the breakup unfortunately. She said nothing you say will change how i feel. I asked her is it me or you were just tired of this relationship. and she said Tired and need to focus on herself. Tomorrow i am going to meet her she will come get her stuff. I am kind of nervous. I know I should give her stuff and say have a good one. On the other hand i feel like talking to her but there is nothing else to talk about. She basically lost the feeling and wants to be free and spend time with her good friends. I tried no contact but she keeps coming into my mind even when i am doing something else she is in my mind most of the time.
charlietheginger Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 Get your stuff give her her stuff and say Goodbye.
Lani Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 Dude, this sucks. I know exactly how it feels, and it hurts like ****. You're having a great day, and then suddenly it happens. You feel like you've been hit by a bus. Full of watermelons. And zombies. And mouldy pumpkins. But trust me, this 'no contact' thing is the way to go. The more you try and talk to her, the more you're going to feel and look like a total loser. And it will only push her further away. You'll look back on it and think 'why didn't I just leave it alone?'. If you really really feel like there are things you need to get off your chest, then write her a letter and give it to her with her things. Just don't expect anything to come from it, other than knowing she knows how you feel. Give her back her things, and say goodbye. Things will get easier, I promise.
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