Cealabeala Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 I met a really lovely guy at the end of the summer while living in my home town and we had an amazing night together where we talked until it got bright outside. The conversation was brilliant and we discovered we are really similar. Unfortunately I moved three hours drive away two weeks later to start my Masters degree and we didn't stay in contact, but I always felt a bit of regret that we didn't get to see where it might lead. As soon as I got home for Christmas we bumped into each other and have spent the last few weeks together. It feels quite intense and we've both expressed how much we like each other. We both studied English so we talk about books and we both write. I think we're both quite sweet, sensitive people too so we're just nice to each other and get along really well. I genuinely care about him and he treats me like he cares about me. It feels like it could be the start of something awesome, but I have to move back to start my second semester on Monday. We're meeting tomorrow, probably for the last time, and I want to talk to him about maybe continuing seeing each other, but I'm kind of confused about whether I should. As I said, it's only really been three weeks, so I don't know if deciding to travel to see each other is a good idea. Thoughts?
Lani Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 A 3 hour drive is nothing. If that's the only thing standing in your way, then you have no good reason not to give it a chance. I absolutely think it can work. Go for it!
JDP25 Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 It can work but it takes a lot of effort from both parties. If both are constantly on the move it is going to make it difficult for you two hang out. I would just stay in touch with him until your traveling and all has settled down some. Main thing is don't loose focus on your goals for a chance of the love game. I would just stay in contact for now.
meganmoore Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 It can work but it takes a lot of effort from both parties. If both are constantly on the move it is going to make it difficult for you two hang out. I would just stay in touch with him until your traveling and all has settled down some. Main thing is don't loose focus on your goals for a chance of the love game. I would just stay in contact for now.
Recommended Posts