Kevin Q Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 So my ex broke up with me a month ago because she said she didn't want a boyfriend, want to get hurt, or cheated on which I won't and told her, we dated for a month. Today we had a ffa thing all day and me and her were really talking the whole time. So when I get home I get a text from her saying wanna hang out? So we did. I went there to help her with her homework. I did and threw out the time there we got sidetracked and talked about a bunch of different things. Some things seemed personal what she was telling me. She put her head on my shoulder when she was tired and she said that guys were trying to flirt with her during the FFA thing but she said she was only flirting with me. It felt like we were together without the kissing. So when I left I only have her a good hug. When I get home i get a text asking if I made it home ok. She said she had a good time and I said the same. I said hope you feel better cause she had an upset stomach, so I said I wanted to rub her belly to make her feel better but I said it might of been weird then she said hmm never know. I know i was to into the relationship and now that we broke up i realized i was and want/have fixed that. I want her back. What's going on here? Does she want to take things slow?
NateC Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 Well first ...how old are you? If you're young, then that behavior by a girl can be...uh, hard to read. I mean, you were barely a month into a relationship and she "ended it". Honestly, I don't really consider that a relationship since typically even the dating phase can be longer than that. Maybe she does want you back. Go with it ...maybe bring up that topic with her at some point.
Author Kevin Q Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 Well first ...how old are you? If you're young, then that behavior by a girl can be...uh, hard to read. I mean, you were barely a month into a relationship and she "ended it". Honestly, I don't really consider that a relationship since typically even the dating phase can be longer than that. Maybe she does want you back. Go with it ...maybe bring up that topic with her at some point. Yeah I'm 18 and she is 17 so it maybe hard to read. When I was at her house she was making compliments to me and I asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime again and she said yeah. Also in school now she looks at me and we just stare at each other like squinting thing ppl do and I was going up the stairs and she punched me in a friendly way. How often do I text her? She was telling me there are two guys that keep bugging her and she gets annoyed by them. When I was at her place they texted her and she sighed and said oh look it's my favorite person as sarcasm.
Author Kevin Q Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 I also tried moving on and was talking to another girl but she had a bf. I told my ex and she was happy (like a month ago) then a week later she said I can't believe you were talking to someone and we haven't been broken up that long. When we hung and when I got home she also asked me if she lead guys on and I said I don't think u do. Idk if she does but was that the right thing to say?
NateC Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 I also tried moving on and was talking to another girl but she had a bf. I told my ex and she was happy (like a month ago) then a week later she said I can't believe you were talking to someone and we haven't been broken up that long. When we hung and when I got home she also asked me if she lead guys on and I said I don't think u do. Idk if she does but was that the right thing to say? Sounds like she realized her mistake when she broke it off with you. If you're up for it, start over with her and see how she responds. Worse case she doesn't want to try again. People break up and get back together constantly...especially at that age. Believe me - I see friends all the time break up with their bf/gf only to be back together a couple weeks later.
Author Kevin Q Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 Sounds like she realized her mistake when she broke it off with you. If you're up for it, start over with her and see how she responds. Worse case she doesn't want to try again. People break up and get back together constantly...especially at that age. Believe me - I see friends all the time break up with their bf/gf only to be back together a couple weeks later. Alright I'll just keep hang out with her a few more times and see where it goes and ask her. Me and her were texting one time and we were talking about my best friends relationship and I told her that they got back together after 4 months of being broke up and she said that's weird so I asked was normal and she said a week. Does that change anything? This was before the FFA thing and before we hung out she said this
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