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BUBS Established Member

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"I don't want too anymore"

 

"I gave up, I'm not going to string it along" aka I met someone who isnt going through the hardest **** in her life and needs me.

 

Gotta love wasting 10 years, but at least I have a diamond ring I can't even look at hidden underneath my bed... totally worth it.

Sari Established Member

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I don't want to break up with you, I can't do this, I never should have got in to this, I'm not emotionally ready yet, I love you, you're amazing, I don't want to be in this relationship anymore.

 

*SLAM*

 

Done and dusted in ten minutes flat. Complete emotional drive-by shooting.

 

Did I mention we'd had sex that morning? :sick:

 

And he'd made me a lovely breakfast just an hour before - "just how I like it" :lmao:

jags2bowl27 Established Member

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LOL suppose there is no reason for me to say anything at all...well except this.

 

Or I could just be childish and for the sake of it...

 

 

 

 

She liked jumping on random dicks???

 

:bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny:

jovan Established Member

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She told me that she doesn't feel the same anymore. Since then world seemed to stay the same, ppl walking, passing me by on the streets, couples holding hands, kids laughing, and nothing, nothing changed, everything around me is still the same. And I find that extremely weird.

Njeanne Established Member

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Nomorejerks...your guy sounds like a prince charming on a white horse. Seriously. *sarcasm* If someone told those things in my face, I'd say "well, ever looked into a mirror lately you're not a sunshine yourselves you know?"

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Victoria Lake Member

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I got:

 

"We can't see each other anymore because I found someone else (after a couple of days since I've seen him the last time, lol). I care about her and I feel butterflies in my stomach (I wanted to punch him in the stomach at that point :D)

We're too different - you're introverted (not true; I'm "private", but not introverted at all), we like different things (don't know what he's talking about), you don't like people (false), you wouldn't get along with my friends (didn't even know them), I like to act different in bed (bs again)".

 

He said all kind of generic things (he wasn't able to give any concrete example), insisting on the fact that we're too different and blah blah. Dunno... I was amazed by how he described me :)) I couldn't believe it.

Njeanne Established Member

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I care about her and I feel butterflies in my stomach

 

I would love if those butterflies go away, and he is stuck saying "huh? where did my feelings go, don't love her?" and he breaks up with her and comes back to you.

Minadee Established Member

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I got "You argue with me too much, you've changed" and he left me after an extremley stressful time in my life. I was taking it out on him and apologised numerous times, told him how much i valued and loved him, did everything for him when he hurt his knee again. Then two weeks later he leaves me for another girl, continues sleeping with me, i find out im pregnant and now i'm at where im at now. Where he drops in when it's convienient, breaks up with this girl on a weekly basis and then drops the whole world at her feet (and telling me all about this) and thinking he is some king because he is taking me to my hospital appointments.

 

hopefully moving on with my life slowly, as he has chose this girl numerous amounts of times over me and i am not someones "second choice."

 

Maybe I sound bitter and angry, but I feel I have the right to be at the moment.

Victoria Lake Member

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I would love if those butterflies go away, and he is stuck saying "huh? where did my feelings go, don't love her?" and he breaks up with her and comes back to you.

 

:lmao:

 

I doubt that will happen - I'm talking about the "coming back to me" part - because he's convinced that we're too different. Anyway, I'm curious what will happen in the future.

I was so hurt, not because of the things he said about me, but because I'm not like that and I was sad to see how he sees me. We would have gotten along very well - but maybe in another universe :laugh:.

 

@Minadee - you don't sound bitter and angry at all; just read your background story, and your ex's behavior is awful.

NoMoreJerks Established Member

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:lmao:

 

I doubt that will happen - I'm talking about the "coming back to me" part - because he's convinced that we're too different. Anyway, I'm curious what will happen in the future.

I was so hurt, not because of the things he said about me, but because I'm not like that and I was sad to see how he sees me. We would have gotten along very well - but maybe in another universe :laugh:.

He was projecting. My ex did this too.

SharkTooth Established Member

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"I don't think we can grow as a family" It was very sad but she was right I guess.

 

-Victoria Lake- From what I've read on your posts, you sound like an incredible woman. You put out a vibe of strength. I just wanted you to know that. Keep it fun and exciting. I know you can!

Victoria Lake Member

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He was projecting. My ex did this too.

 

What do you mean by that? I'm not asking this in an aggressive way :laugh: - I'm just not familiar with the term.

 

@SharkTooth - thanks :)

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arrowfoot

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What I'll never understand is why he gets his panties in a bunch when I tell him we can't be friends.

 

Ever since I begab no contact I get these texts saying "How are you feeling?" (How the hell do you think I feel!?) and, my personal favorite, "I'm just struggling so hard with not being able to be friends"

 

Well, sorry to burst your bubble but I'm going through much worse here. Please don't patronize me. He's confusing the hell out of me!

 

Nice to see him squirming a bit though, hehe. Seeing how much he wants to be there for me, makes me feel a little guilty but also brings up old feelings. Today is gonna be difficult.

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I got "You argue with me too much, you've changed" and he left me after an extremley stressful time in my life. I was taking it out on him and apologised numerous times, told him how much i valued and loved him, did everything for him when he hurt his knee again. Then two weeks later he leaves me for another girl, continues sleeping with me, i find out im pregnant and now i'm at where im at now. Where he drops in when it's convienient, breaks up with this girl on a weekly basis and then drops the whole world at her feet (and telling me all about this) and thinking he is some king because he is taking me to my hospital appointments.

 

hopefully moving on with my life slowly, as he has chose this girl numerous amounts of times over me and i am not someones "second choice."

 

Maybe I sound bitter and angry, but I feel I have the right to be at the moment.

 

I'm so sorry, hun. You're going through a lot. *hug*

 

Have you told him about the pregnancy?

Also, this guy was going to leave you whether or not you apologized, changed for him, or anything; obviously you didn't change. You still love him!

Sounds like he's blaming you instead of saying the truth: that he wants to get laid by someone else (and you simultaneously).

NoMoreJerks Established Member

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What do you mean by that? I'm not asking this in an aggressive way :laugh: - I'm just not familiar with the term.

Basically, accusing you of being the things that HE himself IS..... being in denial about what HE is like, and instead making himself (and you) believe that YOU (not him) are all those bad things..

Victoria Lake Member

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Basically, accusing you of being the things that HE himself IS..... being in denial about what HE is like, and instead making himself (and you) believe that YOU (not him) are all those bad things..

 

Got it. And you may be right...

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