Gaby Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 So yesterday my ex called 2 times then again on saterday. I did NOT PICK UP!! It was kinda hard tho, for a moment a tought: maby she will say sorry and wants to talk things out'' But then i tought, she knows where i live, if its important she'll will pop up and talk to me, and thats what is killing me now, the hope/tought of her coming to my place and talking to me.. I dont know what else she could be calling for anyone has any idea?
cdt76 Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 Yeah, she is calling to hear your broken heart. She is having doubts about the breakup and wants to know you hurt just as bad. As soon as she hears that, she will be gone again and feeling much better about herself.
Balzac Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 What's your goal in all of this? She's an EX for a reason.
Author Gaby Posted January 15, 2013 Author Posted January 15, 2013 Yeah, she is calling to hear your broken heart. She is having doubts about the breakup and wants to know you hurt just as bad. As soon as she hears that, she will be gone again and feeling much better about herself. Well at least she is in doubt now, break up was end November and it was not untill last week when i went NC, it feels like im having some kind of power, geuss girls dont like to be ignored right.
LduKaZ Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 I dont know your situation... But maybe ask her what she wanted? If its anything but an apology and I want you back, tell her you're actually good and have moved on. Wish her a happy life and never talk to her again.
na49 Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 My ex pulled something similar. I stayed NC like you are too. The not knowing can be killer, but think of it this way. If she wanted you back or it was that important, she'd leave a message. She could have been bored and just wanted someone to talk to. Do you know if she's dating someone new or not? It's your call what you want to do really. Call back and find out what she wanted if you want. but don't get your hopes up thinking she wants to reconcile when she really just wants to see if you want to be friends or just make sure you don't hate her. NC hurts our ex at first because eventually they feel like you are actually starting to move on. They don't want that which is why they reach out to us.
OJ loved Nicole Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 anyone has any idea? No. If you want to know, ask. If you don't, don't.
Author Gaby Posted January 15, 2013 Author Posted January 15, 2013 My ex pulled something similar. I stayed NC like you are too. The not knowing can be killer, but think of it this way. If she wanted you back or it was that important, she'd leave a message. She could have been bored and just wanted someone to talk to. Do you know if she's dating someone new or not? It's your call what you want to do really. Call back and find out what she wanted if you want. but don't get your hopes up thinking she wants to reconcile when she really just wants to see if you want to be friends or just make sure you don't hate her. NC hurts our ex at first because eventually they feel like you are actually starting to move on. They don't want that which is why they reach out to us. Im afraid if i call her back, its just a 'Hi how are you'. No she is not dating someone from what i have seen and heard from our mutual friends. So i rather stay NC and heal, in heart in do want her back, i said that, also said i dont want to be her friend.
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