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Fryderyk_Franciszek

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I just broke up with my recent ex about 2 weeks ago now. Over this past weekend I hung out with a bunch of friends. Pretty much to just get out of the house. One of the friends, was someone I had not been hanging out with in awhile and I always had a crush on her. We have been friends for about 12 years now. I knew she always had a crush on me, but never acted since the timing was never right.

 

Over the weekend I actually made a move. I ended up kissing her and she kissed back. I am really afraid I made a move only because I have just recently broke up. I really feel inside that that is not true though. But this past relationship really messed me up. I really like her. And I know she really likes me which is of course making this nice. One of the reasons why I got out of my most recent relationship was because my GF did not show me any love or caring. She always seemed very distant. She never liked to hold my hand or even initiate a kiss. Everything seemed really cold.

 

So, spending more and more time with this new girl is really great. She knows what is going on in my life right now and is willing to take it slow. But, I feel like I want to go 100 mph with this girl. I really don't want this girl to be a rebound and I would like for something to work out with this girl long term.

 

She does live about an hour and a half away, so that makes it a little difficult to see her a lot. Which I can see maybe being a good thing to start off with?

 

I don't know if this is more of a venting thread or a thread to see if anyone else has ever gone through this. I am just confused on how I should be feeling right now. I guess for the moment, I will just enjoy it.

NateC Established Member

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Enjoy it. She's only a rebound if you make it to be - as in, you see her only as someone to support you emotionally until you're ready to move on. If you actually have mutual feelings then that's completely different.

 

Different people have different "mourning" periods and deal with things very differently. Follow your heart (corny, I know). The distance will make it less tempting to rush things for sure. Let it see how it turns out and it'll progress naturally. Good luck!

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