Minadee Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 I think the rose tinted glasses have come off. I really hope it stays this way from now on. I picked his sorry a*se up when he threatened suicide when the girl he left me for dumped him, and when he was supposed to see me today he told me he was trying to sort things out with her instead and then got angry that I was so upset. I literally do think this is the finishing line. I sat down and thought, what the hell am I doing? I cannot control this man's life anymore. He posted on fb that life is all about chances and that he was happy he took the chance. I thought about it and didn't respond. I keep telling myself that he values the thoughts of Harriet more than he does the mother of his un-born child, and although I (finally realise that I) cannot change that, it still sickens me to the core, and is no man that I want to be with. (If you can even call him that) And I deserve better. Damn f*cking right I deserve much much better. Thankyou for all the help and tough love you've all given me. I feel i've finally made the first step to gaining my independance and happiness. This forum has helped me cope so much, and hopefully, if I slip up (no promises! ) you will all be there with your words of wisdom! 3
mammasita Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 Step 1 - UNFRIEND HIM on FB. Hang in there!
Roi Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 It's sickening isn't it? I know what it's like to waste your love on someone who doesn't value it. I wish you best luck on your grieving process, one day we'll be free.
geegirl Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 I hope you keep those glasses off. He swings to you everytime he needs a crutch. I hope you are beginning to see that. Focus on your child and creating a good life for the both of you.
TaraMaiden Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 I think the rose tinted glasses have come off. I really hope it stays this way from now on.... .....although I (finally realise that I) cannot change that, it still sickens me to the core, and is no man that I want to be with. (If you can even call him that) And I deserve better. Damn f*cking right I deserve much much better. Thankyou for all the help and tough love you've all given me. I feel i've finally made the first step to gaining my independance and happiness. This forum has helped me cope so much, and hopefully, if I slip up (no promises! ) you will all be there with your words of wisdom! If I could 'Like' your post a dozen times, I would.... You hang in there girl - any sign of weakness - any at all - you come tell us - we'll help you out!! :bunny:
Author Minadee Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 Thankyou all so much for your wonderful words! They made me smile so much! Going to the cinema with my girlfriends to enjoy some me time as i've been doing a lot of overtime at work. Feeling much more positive, just hope it lasts!
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