sambomelv Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 hi, i am new to this and thought i would give it a try....i am gay btw i was single for some time as i didnt find anyone i liked that much,at the beginning of last year i met a lad who seemed so perfect, he was a loveable caring person, who use to say i was his soul mate and that i meant the world to him. he claims to suffer from BDD body dismorphia syndrome which means he doesnt like how he looks, he has sarted treatment and on high anti depressants, i have supported him all the way and always would have. i found ou in the summer that he had gone onto a forum site and that he had pu naked pictures up and spoke dirty....really hurt me becasue at the time he was down and coulnt have me around him. things did get better, he said sorry and we made a go of it, he always said he loved me on a daily basis and altjough things were hard at times we had a lot of love for eachother.... a few weeks ago we had a small argument and broke up, i thought we wud have got back together like normal but this time he wont speak to me and wont show any emotion that he is bothered about it all... i truly love him and he knows that i do, i make him my world my everything... becasue of his issues he always had a problem with me going out because he thought i wud get attention all the time...i was stopped and questioned about everything, but now he doesnt seem to care, i dont no whether to just cut him out of my life and move on or stay in contact and see if things work out, i always think love is never ending but i think he is over me and isnt bothered...maybe there are to many issues for me and him to be together?? he did cheat on his ex and he liked to get attention i think, he always seem to have these issues with himself when its somethin i want to do but if its smetin he wants to do he doesnt seem to struggle, so maybe he plays on it all?? last week i tried to take my own life cus of all this, its destroyed me as a person and broken my heart, gay men dont seem to be decent people and i feel i will always be alone and not ever be loved, i am a decent guy with a big heart, i wish he could see this...
Mcnulty Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 He's a schmuck! He claims to have body dysmorphia? It's on his terms then, if he's posting this body on websites. You truly have dodged a bullet. His words have not followed through or concurred with his actions. You need to move on, as much as you love him, he's bad news. I wish you luck.
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