blue_jay_bird Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 (edited) I think about someone I loved a long time ago. It's been three years since we have talked. So if anyone that fears that they will become a distant memory... Is they will alway have a soft spot for you. And they miss you so much that it hurts. So much that they think about just talking one more time.. then another..and another... Thats life I guess. Edited January 15, 2013 by blue_jay_bird
na49 Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 Do they? Do they really miss us if they were the ones to dump us? Do they really miss us if they were the ones to cheat on us? Do they really miss us if they were the ones who didn't want things to work? Soft spot my ass. The soft spot was gone the minute they decided they didn't want us anymore. Sure when they're lonely and have no one to talk to or they aren't be screwed by their new partner maybe they think about us. Then they say to themselves... "I'm so much better off. My new partner treats me so much better and makes me so much happier!" I'm willing to call BS on the they miss you like crazy part. Having a bad night... sorry.
Author blue_jay_bird Posted January 15, 2013 Author Posted January 15, 2013 Do they? Do they really miss us if they were the ones to dump us? Do they really miss us if they were the ones to cheat on us? Do they really miss us if they were the ones who didn't want things to work? Soft spot my ass. The soft spot was gone the minute they decided they didn't want us anymore. Sure when they're lonely and have no one to talk to or they aren't be screwed by their new partner maybe they think about us. Then they say to themselves... "I'm so much better off. My new partner treats me so much better and makes me so much happier!" I'm willing to call BS on the they miss you like crazy part. Having a bad night... sorry. btw, i am, so lol. No, really.. but it takes years for GIGS to kick back, so don't wait up.
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 It is hard to say for sure, whether we are missed. I am sure some of us are, and some aren't. Life brings on many changes; by the time they reflect back, it might be ten years too late, and they could have moved well on. Be married, have kids, or what have you. I am sure they will remember you though. No one forgets years of their life, or the people that where majorly involved in their life for years. Not how memory works. So the whole, "forget and move on" Thing is not entirely true. But I get what they mean... I am sure we are remember, some missed, and some not missed. It would be a nice thought though...
FailedFirstLove Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 I think there is always a special place for the ex. Unless its a really bad ex or a really short insignificant relationship. You may not admit it and they may not either but memories will randomly be triggered I'm sure. 1
thembones Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 I'm not sold. It's been 5+ months and I know I'm the furthest thing from her mind. To quote Pearl Jam, "hearts and thoughts they fade... Fade away". If she's thinking about me at all, it's about any little thing I didnt do right.
HaveFaithxx Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 A guy broke up with me in the subway station on the way home from the cinema together. I was in such shock. As he was saying "I still care about you and want to be friends blah blah....." I said "ok, bye" while he was still talking lol. I deleted him from everything as soon as I got home and never heard from him until a year later: "Hi (name)! How are you? I hope you've had a lovely Christmas and New YEar's! As for me, I'm going to be a father! It's a dream come true! Say hi to your daughter for me". I had to look up the number and was so surprised. My answer: "Congratulations, but honestly why do you think I'd care?" So, yeah they think of you. LOl. I have no idea what the point of that was...to rub it in? He broke up with me!
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