luckster Posted August 21, 2004 Posted August 21, 2004 Heres the scenario, Met this guy, called me the next day, we went out to dinner(on a sunday)...had a great time/alot in common. He asked me if we were going to go out again and I said yes. Well, by wednesday he hadnt called, so i called him and left a message, he called me back an hour later and we made plans to meet (since I had to work before) on saturday. He called me as I was driving there and then again once I got to the bar(we both came with friends) to see where I was. Afterwards, I went back to his place, he told me how beautiful i was, that he was going to make me a priority(he just started law school) and discussed things in the future. He even made me call him back once I got home after our date. And now its been a week...since our last date, and no call. What should I do, I think we are great together. He even gave me a few of his things(shirt and a book). Do you think he will still call? Can I call him?
uriel Posted August 22, 2004 Posted August 22, 2004 Yes, I think you can call him to arrange another date. Just once. No neediness in your message, if you must leave one. He's probably been busy with school, etc. starting up. Be understanding about that. For a new dating situation, once a week or so (maybe even 1.5 weeks) isn't a big deal. Only once a romance heats up can you expect more regular contact. Of course, you'd like to test his interest level, too, but it's too early to use this sort of call frequency as a sign. See if he reciprocates your interest when you talk, and keep watching for him to invest in the relationship going forward, even if it's not quite as quickly as would make you most comfortable. -- uriel
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