singleman Posted August 21, 2004 Posted August 21, 2004 Why is it that an ex gf/bf seem to always look and act different after a breakup? for example, i saw my ex out (with another man) a couple of weeks ago, and she doesn't even look like the same person - nothing major in appearance change, but even my friend said that she even seems/looks different. Also, I ran in to my ex's sister, and she told me that "she is acting very wierd lately." Any explanations?
ojibwaywmn Posted August 21, 2004 Posted August 21, 2004 Because they are moving on. You are no longer in a relationship with her....so it is not a concern anymore.
Blah Toolz Posted August 21, 2004 Posted August 21, 2004 People change... go in new directions sometimes. I think that's what the case is here. It's been said already though... she's not your concern anymore, just move on, bro.
Author singleman Posted August 22, 2004 Author Posted August 22, 2004 I totally agree with you both - I know she has moved on, but my friends and i were talking in general that it seems like a person totally changes when they breakup. Just curious.
supermom Posted August 22, 2004 Posted August 22, 2004 I did the same thing after one of my breakups, dyed my hair brown (natural blonde) and changed different styles of clothes, makeup. It's kind of refreshing. I didn't want to be the same woman my ex had, I wanted to be different, and it helps a little in getting over the breakup as well. She wants to be different from the girl who was with you most likely.
manofmystrey Posted August 23, 2004 Posted August 23, 2004 Dude the only thing i can think of is that they want to just feel better about their current situation. The other thing could be that new person in their life wants them to be that way and so they change to make that person happy. At some point we all have been guilty of that. Also the other reason could be that she just wants to feel more attractive by making some changes.
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