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Do women check out other men even where they are in a committed relationship?

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Babolat Established Member

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I was talking to one of my female friends today, who is in a serious relationship. This topic came up. She said, if a mans package is obviously showing, bulging thru his jeans if you will (not a hard on, just the shape) she will notice it and think "nice package". Not in a sexual way, not in a "I want him way" just, nice package. She said she does not stare at every man this way, just if it's obvious\there.

 

She compared it to men noticing a womans breasts, their butt, etc. A man may not want to jump her bones, but he will think "Nice breasts" or "nice butt" because something about the clothes is displaying it.

 

Do women think about this?

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I notice other men, but not their package. I will notice if someone has a nice smile or shoulders or eyes.

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Unless you are blind you are going to see things in your line of vision. Looking and touching are two different things.

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I think most women are cockgazers. I always try to give them something to checkout. After a lot of jelqing for years and my frame of mind, I pretty much have a chubby all the time. I notice them noticing a lot. Especially the married ones.

 

I use to be a flight engineer on planes in the military. Our seating arrangement was pilot and co-pilot up front, me just behind them in the center. My flight suits fit me kinda loose. Every time we had female pilots, just for fun, I'd prop the crotch area of my flight suit to go out like I have a huge hard-on. Fun times usually ensues. Everything from the female pilot trying extremely and obviously hard to not notice to one of them actually whacking it down real hard.....that was unexpected and painful, but I laughed my ass off.

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CarrieT Established Member

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I always like to read the menu, even when I've picked out my entrée!

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yep, I do it all the time. I often imagine people naked or having sex. Sometimes I gross myself out with those images.

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I was talking to one of my female friends today, who is in a serious relationship. This topic came up. She said, if a mans package is obviously showing, bulging thru his jeans if you will (not a hard on, just the shape) she will notice it and think "nice package". Not in a sexual way, not in a "I want him way" just, nice package. She said she does not stare at every man this way, just if it's obvious\there.

 

She compared it to men noticing a womans breasts, their butt, etc. A man may not want to jump her bones, but he will think "Nice breasts" or "nice butt" because something about the clothes is displaying it.

 

Do women think about this?

 

 

If a man's "package" is bulging out, you can't help but notice it. I don't attempt to look at it, but it will catch my eyes if it is so obvious. I don't think "I want him" or "nice package"....my brain just registers it.

 

Being committed doesn't change how my eyes work :laugh:.

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I learn something new every day! She even said that day as I was driving her back to work "see, your package is showing in your jeans!". I had no idea it was nor did I have any idea women looked or noticed.

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I'll notice tall guys with broad shoulders, but I never imagine having sex with them or seeing them naked.

 

It's just admiring the sight and it's not sexual. Not really much different than when I see a beautiful sunrise, an awesome house or a really cute baby.

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Do women check out other men even where they are in a committed relationship?

 

Every woman I've been R'd with or M'd to has and that matches up well with female friends and friend's wives. Pretty normal behavior based on my life sample. Some are more obvious about it than others.

 

Health and equity would be indicated by their reaction when their SO/spouse engages in similar behavior, if they feel their behavior is healthy.

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Yes. But if I look south of the border it is generally because I like them already. Here in Italy lots of men where tighter pants and those tiny bun huggers which improve the appearance of their junk. And then subconsciously BAM you're a cock gazer.

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I very rarely register any men as a sexual being when I am in love, or in a serious relationship. I can acknowledge that people of both genders can be fit or attractive or well-presented but it does absolutely nothing for me in the vast majority of cases.

 

In an 8 year relationship I had I was only attracted to one other guy, a local barman a fair bit younger than me :)

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Yes we look. Yes, guys look too.

 

I have a slight obsession with firefighters. My boyfriend knows that me gawking at a man in a firefighter uniform is the same as him ogling a woman with huge boobs wearing a low cut shirt.

 

Doesn't mean you act on it, but yes, everyone looks.

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i look all the time, but have never looked at their 'package' - lol. i look at eyes, hands, clothes, hair

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My favorite is a guy with no shirt on, wearing low cut shorts that hang right above his...

 

If he has abs to die for, or if he has the inverted "V" muscle...oh...my...gawd...

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My favorite is a guy with no shirt on, wearing low cut shorts that hang right above his...

 

If he has abs to die for, or if he has the inverted "V" muscle...oh...my...gawd...

 

You made me laugh; I have 6 pack abs with the V and my girlfriend has big breasts; we should try passing each other one day on the side walk as couples! :-)

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yep, I do it all the time. I often imagine people naked or having sex. Sometimes I gross myself out with those images.

 

Me, toooooo! :laugh:

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You made me laugh; I have 6 pack abs with the V and my girlfriend has big breasts; we should try passing each other one day on the side walk as couples! :-)

 

Make sure you don't have a shirt on, and make sure your girlfriend has a low cut top.

 

My boyfriend and I would be in heaven :)

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I wonder how many girlfriends or boyfriends get jealous when their SO checks someone else out.

 

I don't expect my BF to think I'm the ONLY good looking person on the planet in his eyes. Just like he knows I think other men are hot.

 

If it was excessive, I might tell him to knock it off, but mostly it's all in good fun. Sometimes we joke, especially when watching tv or movies. I always ask him if he would "do" her, or he does the same to me.

 

If I want to be honest about thinking other guys are hot, I have to expect him to want to do the same. So it doesn't bother me. But I know some girls that get PISSED if their BF even glances in the general vicinity of another woman.

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I don't know about noticing the package. I would notice if he's a good looking fit guy. I would think to myself "good looking guy" "very handsome" etc. etc.

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Yes we look, but it would be disrespectful to stare at another.

 

I dump a guy if he gets wierdly jealous about me looking at the people around me/talking with the people around me.

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