Romantic_Lefty Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 It's been almost half a year now since i had to end my relationship with the girl of my dreams. It's ended terribly (see other posts for the full story). She has seemingly moved on very quickly and doesn't want me in her life, while this time i'm finding it extremely difficult to move foreward. The second time we broke up i was able to find someone else not long after and block every bad feeling i had out. But now, after a third attempt at happiness, and half a year apart, i can't seem to get her out of my head anymore. Can anyone explain to me what is going on!? I should be angry at her at the very least and driven to forget her and move on, but lately, all i can feel is loss and despair. Why after soo long can i not get her out of my head/move on? any help would be appreciated!
FailedFirstLove Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 It's been almost half a year now since i had to end my relationship with the girl of my dreams. It's ended terribly (see other posts for the full story). She has seemingly moved on very quickly and doesn't want me in her life, while this time i'm finding it extremely difficult to move foreward. The second time we broke up i was able to find someone else not long after and block every bad feeling i had out. But now, after a third attempt at happiness, and half a year apart, i can't seem to get her out of my head anymore. Can anyone explain to me what is going on!? I should be angry at her at the very least and driven to forget her and move on, but lately, all i can feel is loss and despair. Why after soo long can i not get her out of my head/move on? any help would be appreciated! I'm suffering as well. His moved on with his life. Seems happy and I can't so the same. It's frustrating. All I know if you will go through bad days. And some days may not be so bad. Can't say their good but not as bad as some. There is nothing wrong with you!!! some people take break ups a lot harder. Like me. Some just distract themselves so they don't feel as much. you have to move on in your own time. I can't tell you when because we're all different. Just think. If she's your soulmate she will come back. If not then your soulmates out there somewhere. The more you dwell the further she is to you. Mind you I say all this and some days I can't even deal with it myself!!!
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