broken-hearted22 Posted January 14, 2013 Share Posted January 14, 2013 I'm new here, and I don't know where else to turn.. so any advice would be appreciated thanks. Myself and my bf of a few years broke up, long story short his job involves him being! Which i'm used to, but he was gone all of the Christmas period and arrived home 3 days ago. Despite how desperate we were to see each other while he was away,when he came home he didn't make any attempt to come see me within those days! Claiming he was too tired, I was so disappointed and let down that an anger came over that I had no control over and I ended up breaking up with him. I don't know where I got the strength from to do it because I love him way too much:( but I am just sick of been second best all the time! this is not the first time he has let me down, I feel like if he missed me that much and really wanted to see me he could of! he only lives a few min away! He's making out that i'm unreasonable! and that he didn't understand where the break-up came from. I'm starting to think that I love him a bit more than he loves me. did I overreact by breaking up with him? thanks for reading! Link to post Share on other sites
will1988 Posted January 14, 2013 Share Posted January 14, 2013 No you did not over react. If he was a few minutes from you, yet could not see you for a few days obviously he doesn't care as much about you as he is saying. You did the right thing. You will heel. You will move on. Just stay strong and try to ceep your self occupied. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author broken-hearted22 Posted January 14, 2013 Author Share Posted January 14, 2013 Thank you for your reply, i think I did too I just feel awful at the moment. Link to post Share on other sites
will1988 Posted January 14, 2013 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Of course you feel horrible, that is a natural feeling after you go through a break up. You did the right thing. You gave him chances to spend time with you and he did not rise to those chances. It is one thing to travel for work, I get that considering my job has a little travel a few times a year. However, it is another thing to be traveling all of the time and then totally ignoring you when he is back in town. If he truly loved you the first person he would have seen when he was back in town was you! he would have gone straight to your house instead of just chilling at his own for days! If I were you, I'd start hanging out with friends more, starting working out more, or doing something to keep occupied... you will move on and get better with time. There will be someone meant for you out there. Good luck and I hope you feel better! Link to post Share on other sites
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