Gentleman810 Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Hi People, Regarding a little problem I was seeking for advice about the following: there is a girl in my class and I know that she is kinda shy around me. Even my friend told me she sometimes acts shy when I am around. Whenever she is with others, she is not shy. The thing is, that I also made a lot of mistakes because I didn't know how to handle the situation and I'm quite shy too. Because I never ''really'' gave attention or did it in the wrong way. Eventually she did send me a friend request on facebook. After some time, I figured that I needed to grow some b*lls (sorry for my language) and I needed to make a move. I just think I might have been kinda to late and she might not be interested in me anymore. The big problem is this: I started chatting with her on FB and she did reply on me quickly. After 2 days I asked her something again regarding the things we've spoken before, she then suddenly didn't answer but did check the message. I was like OK? I thought she had no more interest and I didn't have my hopes HIGH. But to my surprise, she did answer the question 2 days later which does mean she didn't forget about, which I didn't expect at all. What does this mean? I know that in every situation there is a possibility that someone simply does not like you, which I am well aware about it.
ScienceGal Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 It means that whatever you want to ask her, you should ask her to her face. She can't wait two days that way. 1
Author Gentleman810 Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 It means that whatever you want to ask her, you should ask her to her face. She can't wait two days that way. Thank you, but what I tried to figure out was; what about the situation? Is this a positive thing that in fact, she did reply or do I have to let go of this.
Author Gentleman810 Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 What was the question? Well I just wanted to know whether she was interested in me or not, but I don't know it honestly :S. Girls are so tough to understand sometimes.
ScienceGal Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 What did she answer? I am assuming yes, or something else that makes it seem like she is. That's why you're not sure why she waited? She shouldn't have waited two days to answer. She either is not really interested (and replied just to be nice) or she is interested, but is nervous/shy (which is also why she waited to reply). Basically, this one event doesn't give you much information. Make an effort to send her cues when you're actually around her (start by talking to her more, smile, keep eye contact).
Author Gentleman810 Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 What did she answer? I am assuming yes, or something else that makes it seem like she is. That's why you're not sure why she waited? She shouldn't have waited two days to answer. She either is not really interested (and replied just to be nice) or she is interested, but is nervous/shy (which is also why she waited to reply). Basically, this one event doesn't give you much information. Make an effort to send her cues when you're actually around her (start by talking to her more, smile, keep eye contact). Indeed, I think it's good for me to start with making her feel comfortable around me while we see each other in real-life instead. This was a bit a nerve cracking for me because I thought she somewhat lost interest for some reason, I'm just panicking to much I guess.
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