xxsexy_smithy Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Ok so there's this guy I really really like on facebook (yeah facebook lol) anywayz we've been talking since end of last year (around early November time), it was mainly everyday we were talking. We both don't get online much so it was like via cell phone facebook (if you know what I mean). Well I admitted to him that I liked him, I just thought why not, why keep your feelings in? if he doesn't feel the same way then well, move on from there. But anyway eventually he did tell me that he liked me. Seemed to be liking my photos a lot more etc Well anywayz I talking with my ex boyfriend and we were getting a little more friendlier, I wasn't gonna get back with him or anything like that but this guy I liked he deleted me from facebook. I added him back and he accepted: he did tell me that he was jealous (I dunno why) of my ex. We did talk from time to time after that but not as much but you know when you get the feeling someone has been stalking over your profile? well that's the feeling I got. I know he used to stalk to my profile because if I posted something etc he didn't like he would go off on one. Well anywayz recently another guy has been interested me and asked me to go on msn to chat. nothing more than just a friendly chat. I don't fancy this other guy or anything, we were just friends. But this guy that I really like has now deleted me. He then sent me a message, 'have fun with you boyfriend ******'. I need guys to answer please, just what is going through this guys mind? He hasn't blocked me from facebook and I do send him messages, should I just lay off sending him any more messages? If he really liked me then surely he would add me back to facebook? surely he wouldn't just walk away, esp if he liked someone? Oh he accepted my friendship request last night but then deleted me again. He still hasn't blocked me. It's like this: he knows that I want him (I know he likes me from his jealousy), but he doesn't make any moves, so when I go to move on he doesn't like it and deletes me. Need help with what the hell is going on in his head thanks
will1988 Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Wow! You are really putting this much stock in facebook? It sounds like you both are playing games. BTW how does he know that the other guy is talking to you. To be honest if he is getting this clingy, controling, and paranoid over someone he is talking to online, has never met, and is not dating... think of what he'd be like if you two dated in reality?! I would have nothing, and I repeat, NOTHING to do with him from now on. Sure he tickles your fancy, and probably vice versa, but again, do you want to date a crazy person? Trust me, I have dated people that clingy and controling and the relationship never ends well. In my youth I was also that way, and then I grew up and matured... nothing good can come from a relationship like that. So do not add him again on facebook. Do not email him again on facebook. Ignore him, and go on your merry way. I'd also suggest maybe trying to find a man in real life and not on the internet. Good luck!
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