zebo0145 Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Met a girl from OLD last week and we went out on our first date just recently. This was actually my first OLD encounter so I'm very new to the game. The chemistry was unbelievable with her and we we already agreed to see each next weekend. I've already put my OLD account on hold since I'm not the type of guy who dates more than one person at a time. Would it hurt to let her know that she's the only one I'm seeing? Or does it come off as a little pushy/clingy? I don't expect her to be mutually exclusive or anything especially this early on. She's told me that she just recently started getting back into the dating world since she's been busy in life, and that I was her first online date in a while (she's been single for 7 months). I see real potential for a LTR out of this from my end but I don't want to scare her off. We're both 24 for age reference.
Lani Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 No, don't tell her. Whatever way you try and put it, she's going to feel like you want to know if she's dating other people. You've only been on one date, so just take it easy. I think it's nice that you've put your OLD profile on hold, and that you only want to date her, but it's far too early to bring that up. Us women are also pretty intuitive, so after a couple of dates she'll probably pick up on it anyway. Just relax and enjoy it for now
Author zebo0145 Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 No, don't tell her. Whatever way you try and put it, she's going to feel like you want to know if she's dating other people. You've only been on one date, so just take it easy. I think it's nice that you've put your OLD profile on hold, and that you only want to date her, but it's far too early to bring that up. Us women are also pretty intuitive, so after a couple of dates she'll probably pick up on it anyway. Just relax and enjoy it for now Thanks for your advice, my gut feeling is telling me to avoid telling her as well.
syw0806 Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 My current boyfriend, met him on a dating site, asked me to be exclusive on the first time our meeting. He told me how he felt great chemistry between us blahblahs, I liked him too, but I found it bit early for him to decide whether he wants to be exclusive... I said okay because I liked him and I could see he really liked me...well who knows he has done that to every girl he was dating lol anyways, We've been dating for few weeks and going strong! but I suggest to ask her on the third or fourth date. From my experience, you can have a great chemistry on the first date, but notice another side or gain different idea of that person on the second or third date. I experience that all the time in fact lol the guy I've been seeing is a good exception, but always think again and don't make full decision by only just first date. I guess by third date, you'll have an idea if you want to see her exclusively or not. Good luck!
Casablanca Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 I'd hold on a few dates to see where it goes, get to know each other first
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