napy666 Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 My friend told me she hadn't had sex in a long time and this one guy she's been dating on and off had told her after their first few dates that he was just wanting "friends with benefits" because he had gotten out of a relationship over 4 months earlier and wasn't ready for a new relationship or a boyfriend/girlfriend status. So my friend disliked the friends with benefits idea and I told her dude he is probably just looking for a re-bound type of thing right now I bet you. After a few more dates her and him did make out and stuff a little then she tells me earlier today while we hung out that she decided to go along with the friends with benefits concept. She asked advice from her brother who's gay and he said its ok to have casual sex, as long as the guy still dates her and takes her out etc. If he just wants her to do her in every now and then and nothing more then it's not a good idea. Also this guy she's seeing recently told her that he didn't like girls with tattoos or piercing's and my friend does have a few little tattoos some on her back and one on her wrist, and her ear lobes are pierced all crazy style. He also said he wanted her to go back to her old hairstyle of blonde only instead of her black with blonde . So right there he's controlling her and stuff and thats not good. She did tell him off a little bit, and he's said sorry over and over again. Which brings us back to her giving into the friends with benefits and her needing to have sex just becuz it's been a while since she hasn't had it. What do you think of this whole thing?
Lani Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 I think she should have sex with someone else. If she's actually interested in him, then friends with benefits isn't going to work. It rarely does for anyone, and going into it when one party is more involved than the other is a terrible idea. If she really needs sex, then I'm sure she can get it elsewhere. 1
Author napy666 Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 I think she should have sex with someone else. If she's actually interested in him, then friends with benefits isn't going to work. It rarely does for anyone, and going into it when one party is more involved than the other is a terrible idea. If she really needs sex, then I'm sure she can get it elsewhere. I guess so but I know her, she does really like this guy and I guess she's hoping by doing this it will bring her and him closer together.
Lani Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 I guess so but I know her, she does really like this guy and I guess she's hoping by doing this it will bring her and him closer together. It won't..
Emilia Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 What do you think of this whole thing? that your friend is desperate and she is showing it
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