I just hung out with ex girlfriend!

[Kevin Q]

So my ex broke up with me a month ago because she said she didn't want a boyfriend, want to get hurt, or cheated on which I won't and told her, we dated for a month. Today we had a ffa thing all day and me and her were really talking the whole time. So when I get home I get a text from her saying wanna hang out? So we did. I went there to help her with her homework. I did and threw out the time there we got sidetracked and talked about a bunch of different things. Some things seemed personal what she was telling me. She put her head on my shoulder when she was tired and she said that guys were trying to flirt with her during the FFA thing but she said she was only flirting with me. It felt like we were together without the kissing. So when I left I only have her a good hug. When I get home i get a text asking if I made it home ok. She said she had a good time and I said the same. I said hope you feel better cause she had an upset stomach, so I said I wanted to rub her belly to make her feel better but I said it might of been weird then she said hmm never know. What's going on here? Does she want to take things slow?

[sabre80]

She wants all the benefits of having a boyfriend without the responsibility of commitment. She is keeping you around because she does not want to be alone and wants someone to emotionally validate her. But she wants to keep it non-committal so her conscience is free and clear when he sleeps with the hot guy who makes her tingle. Then suddenly you will be wondering why you are not getting any replies to your texts and wondering why she has disappeared on you.

 

Have a little self respect. Stop talking to her at all. No texts no phone calls no emails. Just disappear on her before she disappears on you. She is using you as her emotional tampon. You are her girl friend. Be a man move on.

 

"she said she didn't want a boyfriend"

 

She does not want YOU as her boyfriend. Do not let her cake eat.