AlexJensen Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Hi everyone. I thought i would just ask for your advice concerning my situation. Im 21 she is 20 and she has had quite a few boyfriends all of which she has cheated on and none really like her. I ended the same sadly. Basically in summary after a up and down, intense/jealous relationship of a year and a bit she acts distant, goes to her ex's place but 'nothing happens' and I break it off. After a week of her begging for me back I finally agree to skype her. She blows off skype and sleeps with another bloke that night so i just initiated NC and removed her facebook. The relationship finished 2-3 weeks ago. Obviously I was upset and just did my best to move on. I have made immense progress. But I was just wondering if someone could explain her recent behaviour...basically she went a little crazy, slept with another bloke and then attempted a relationship with this guy like a week after we broke up. I think its collapsed but ive heard shes gone slightly mental, like partying very hard (ecstasy etc). After initial upset feelings about this i decided she was moving on so i would to. Went out had fun, went skiing and have had so much fun. I have maintained no contact apart from when she wished me merry christmas so i was polite back. However very recently she sends me a message saying 'as if you have gone back to her' on fb, in reference to my other ex posting a bit on my wall. She then proceeds to add her as a friend and like her stuff which is weird as they simply dont know each other. She then adds me on facebook, which i ignore (same as her message) because Im enjoying my recovery. Then she removes her facebook altogether and adds me on skype which i ignore. Then she puts facebook back up and comments on stuff saying quite lame stuff like cant beleive im single etc. What is the deal. I have genuinely recovered a lot (not fully, still think about it/occasional missing) but do think about what on earth is going on. Hence the question. Any help would be greatly appreciated as my insight is poor. Thank you.
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