bella03 Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 The whole relationship with my boyfriend changed when I got attracted to a coworker. My ex has cheated on me so I decided never to fall in love again and was in a safe relationship with this boyfriend until I felt those vibes again. I told the coworker I felt there was something between us, but he turned me down. He was going through a tough time and many said he was not being himself, shortly after he resigned. I wanted to break up with my boyfriend, but I told him the whole story and he said we should remain together and try (we've been together for 5 years). Some month passed it all seemed fixed, until I started getting attracted to someone else again. Coworker no 2 stepped on the scene. I started asking friends for advice if this was normal. They said that I obviously don't love my bf. and that I need to break up with him and start all over again. So I broke up with him two weeks ago quickly moved out, but now I feel even more attracted to coworker no 2 and I can't really help it. Do you think I should stay alone for a while or should I go for it? I am also kind of scared since the last time I tried to tell my feelings to someone I got turned down. What do you suggest me to do? I am thinking of this new crush every day, several times and I am always so happy and positive when I see him.
HitMeNow Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Bella I do not know what to say. You've wasted yours and this guys 5 years of life, with no feelings involved. If you are attracted to someone no reason to deny it, but see where it goes. People in their lives get attracted to thousands of other people. So just get to know this coworker and see how it goes. IMO you're really inexperienced as you're thinking already of "being with him" when you guys don't even know each other that well and you wanna "confess your love for him". Just get to know him in a workplace / friendly way. No reason to overthink.
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