skylark100 Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 I recently began talking to another girl. Since it was online, I like to take my time. I've only ever met one person from online dating, and it ended disastrously lol. We've only been back and forth twice with messages, and now she says that she isn't much to the online thing and would like to meet instead. She might be legit but I really don't know. Seems a bit fast to me, and I wonder if this is something to be concerned about. My guard is definitely up. Opinions and insight please!
Casablanca Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 I recently began talking to another girl. Since it was online, I like to take my time. I've only ever met one person from online dating, and it ended disastrously lol. We've only been back and forth twice with messages, and now she says that she isn't much to the online thing and would like to meet instead. She might be legit but I really don't know. Seems a bit fast to me, and I wonder if this is something to be concerned about. My guard is definitely up. Opinions and insight please! I think it just means she is interested, usually on my 3rd or 4th I suggest meeting up. Make it casual with little risk. Coffee or drinks is fine just to see how you two interact.
soccerrprp Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 What? There are plenty of people who are like that. Some use OLD because it's the best way for them to meet. Some prefer to meet sooner. Nothing inherently wrong with that. Would you be suspicious if the person you net for the first time did it tge old-fashioned way? If you walked up to a total stranger or a woman asked you out while at a party, would you be as suspicious? Just take the same kind of precautions.
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